I chose #3 because the heart shaped wings surrounding the female form and the bowed head symbolic of humility really resonated with me about motherhood. Having said that I know from having to make the decisions for my late husband's headstone that personalizing the gravesite can bring you such comfort when visiting. I had a guitar, music treble clef (on the headstone) and a small metal fence to surround the flowers with his name and music notes on it. And yes he was a lifelong musician and an Elvis tribute artist. I know he would have loved it!