Warning!!!

Hi Everyone,

I think we need to all take a step back. Bashing her is not going to help anyone. I think that we should give everyone the "benefit of doubt". Do we really know what's going on here? No-we will never know for sure-there will always be doubt. The question is can we work with her to try and fix the situation if she is telling the truth? What more will you lose? I think we should try to at least give her the chance to make things right. If everyone could post their missing trains/trades here, then we could all see if she is truly willing to work things out.

missks2002 - I think trying to finding a solution to this a great idea. So I'll start.

I'm missing Lizabella's Train #2. Kayla_dufour please just send it home or to the next rider.

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Originally Posted by missks2002

Hi Everyone,

I think we need to all take a step back. Bashing her is not going to help anyone. I think that we should give everyone the "benefit of doubt". Do we really know what's going on here? No-we will never know for sure-there will always be doubt. The question is can we work with her to try and fix the situation if she is telling the truth? What more will you lose? I think we should try to at least give her the chance to make things right. If everyone could post their missing trains/trades here, then we could all see if she is truly willing to work things out.

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I think this was well put and am just glad I was able to catch my trains, thanks again missks2002! :excited:

Ok Kayla, I sent you a few PM but you never replied. So, I'm going to post on this thread. I sent you a bundle and you need to send me 4 stamps please.

Would like to get a rating too if you don't mind.

Thanks!

I am missing JessandJake's Super Assortment Train #3 which was mailed to her on Sept. 4th.

I understand that things happen in people's lives and coupons take a back burner. I also think most people on here would just appreciate a little more personal communication like responding to PMs sent especially when this person is till coming online!

I am missing coupons that I sent her for her own wish list train Kayla's Sweet Surprise Wishlist Train

missks2002, thanks for the good idea!

Kayla, I sent you a few PM but no response.

I have two train
Ssss “happy summer, happy train” #2---- B>>Kayla dufour, mailed out Sep 2
Ssss “Glad or Ziploc” #3---------A>> Kayla DuFour, mailed out sep 12

Please pm me or post your pm here
Thanks!


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i got the reply very fast. i believe she want to fix the problems. let's see what will happen, i will post the result here.

Im in the process of trying to get everything sorted out. If everyone whos train I was on could PM me that would be great. I have already started working out compinsation for other Scers. I am going to work through my inbox later today and respond to all previous e-mails from all of you

Not telling everyone about this earlier was stupid and cowardly and I acknowledge that.

To everyone who has said to stop the bashing and give me the benifit of the doubt, I would like to Thank You. I must be honest, if I was you guys and I was reading this I dont know if I could give someone the benifit of the doubt. You guys are extremely kind hearted

To everyone that is bashing me...it sucks but I cant say I blame you. What I did was stupid..I should have responded to the pms. I just hope that once you all read that people are recieving compinsation, maybe you will believe me.

But to everyone that dosnt believe me...if I had actually stolen all these peoples trains...why would I be taking all this time to respond and try to work things out with other SCers....KNOWING that I already have a bad rep that no matter what I do will never go away, as well as a negative trade rating?? It just dosnt make sence.

Im not a bad person, I just wanna make up for everything

nej26--> I will get the 4 stamps sent out to you asap

I sent you pm

Please respond

Kayla- I will PM you about my missing train. But, I do need to ask you about your excuses that you gave me that were different than you listed here. You told me LAST WEEK that you were waiting for your mail to arrive and that it arrives at noon. You said nothing about your mailbox key being missing. I assumed from that PM that you were still receiving mail. And, correct me if I am wrong but if you lost your key, when you do get your new one, all of the mail that was put in there should still be there right?

Hopefully she will make this mess alright for everyone involved.

This is why I dont take on more trains/trades then I can handle, cause it gets overwhelming sometimes & life gets in the way! LOL

Ok, to start this off. I appoligize for all the excuses. I just didnt know how to tell everyone this, so I took the cowardly way out. I lied. I didnt think anyone would beleive (so stupid...NOW they dont believe me). To be honest, I wasnt planning on saying anything, I was just gonna stop trading. It wasnt until I read this thread and reliezed how stupid and disresceptful that was. Ive made friends on SC, its helpped me so much..especially the scers on here.

I lost my keys, and got new ones. My key is the same as my old one and opens the same lock. I believe someone has my OLD key and is using it to take my mail. (A lot of people know about my coupon addiction, and that I get envelopes full of them everyday). Basically, I open my mailbox everyday...and its always empty) I have talked to building managment about this and they are trying to get approval from the superintendant to have my mailbox locked replaced and get a new key. I hope this helps clear everything up.

Again...I am so sorry about this. I cant believe i did somthing so stupid. But, im paying the price. Ive lost some great (online) friends as well as everyones trust. I know you guys have lost out too...and im sorry and am attempting to (1 by 1) make this up to everyone. If you dont recieve a message right away, please be patient...i have A LOT of individual appoligizing to do...

when I looked, her rating was "34" .. if this is still considered a "newbie" when will I have hope?

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Originally Posted by Teenah20

I'll still take trades and trains with newbies... I'll just make sure the new ones are first on the train...that way nobody but me is out anything. Not every newbie is a bad apple. :) *** hopefully this gets resolved soon!

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This whole thing is crazy....I'm so confused! So she's not dead? And her cousin made a cruel post?? (Who would do that???) WTF?

Kayla, I get that you want to delete your account now, but do you think you could forward everyone their trains/envies/coupons that you signed up for? I'm sure we all would appreciate it, and it might be a nice way to apologize to everyone as well.