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[DianneS]

received my negative today. i am so upset it isnt funny. i did offer several times to make it up to her, and was told there was nothing i can do to change it...all i can say is that for anybody that isnt perfect...you may want to think twice before riding this unreasonable persons trains!!

I got your envy for my train today and it was AWESOME! Contact Sally to have your negative sorted out.

[redhdlois]

Traded with couponmom81 on March 19th - unfortunately she sent the wrong coupons; said she would make it up by sending a G/C (I said I was ok if she just wanted to send other coupons to make it up but she insisted on sending a G/C), I've never received the G/C, sent a PM a few weeks ago, no resonse and she hasn't logged on since April 7....any suggestions as to whether I should leave a neutral or a negative ??

[Tweets77]

I arranged a trade for 7 fpcs and 1 bogo cpn with kellison on March 13th. She rec'd my end of the trade by March 26th. She has not sent me her end of the trade. When she did finally respond to my inquiries about 3 1/2 weeks later, she promised to send her end (claimed "family issues") and I am still waiting. I found out that she has burned at least one other trader. I threatened to go to Sally with this info but she has not responded. Any ideas on how long I should wait? I have send her numerous pms and nothing. ( She hasnt been online that I can see either).

I have given kellison a negative trade rating....enough is enough!! I think that she was playing me for a fool the whole time....I have kept all her pms and her address for future reference. I am not going to let it get me down, but at the same time I am PI$%@D! Thanks for letting me vent!

[flyingdutch]

Please those who are trading with bonnieNklyde be patient, she has had a recent lost in her family and has been out of hte country dealing with that. I got a PM from her as I am on one of her trains.

[Peachykeen2007]

I as well gave a negative to smoky

gave negatives to NailElegance and Smoky

[mjaas]

i have a question. i finalized a trade with a newbie (from BC) on may 11th, so i mailed her envie on the 12th. then last monday, may 21st, i received another envie from BC from another trade which was finalized on may 24th. so i checked the profile of the first person i traded with in BC and it seems that after she gave me her address she never logged in again in SC and most likely she never saw my email telling her my address. but i know that we could still view our PM's from our preferred email address so even if you don't log in in SC you'll be able to read the PM's sent to you.

my question is, what should i do? consider her MIA?

thanks in advance!

[flyingdutch]

It's only been 2 weeks so I might wait a little bit longer. Sometimes mail, even leaving from the same province, can be delayed depending on where it was mailed and a variety of other reasons. Maybe send them a PM and see if they respond.

i have a question. i finalized a trade with a newbie (from BC) on may 11th, so i mailed her envie on the 12th. then last monday, may 21st, i received another envie from BC from another trade which was finalized on may 24th. so i checked the profile of the first person i traded with in BC and it seems that after she gave me her address she never logged in again in SC and most likely she never saw my email telling her my address. but i know that we could still view our PM's from our preferred email address so even if you don't log in in SC you'll be able to read the PM's sent to you.

my question is, what should i do? consider her MIA?

thanks in advance!

[Darth Penguin]

Missstarbender is having some problems. please allow her some leeway

[Jezebel]

i have a question. i finalized a trade with a newbie (from BC) on may 11th, so i mailed her envie on the 12th. then last monday, may 21st, i received another envie from BC from another trade which was finalized on may 24th. so i checked the profile of the first person i traded with in BC and it seems that after she gave me her address she never logged in again in SC and most likely she never saw my email telling her my address. but i know that we could still view our PM's from our preferred email address so even if you don't log in in SC you'll be able to read the PM's sent to you.

my question is, what should i do? consider her MIA?

thanks in advance!

that feature has to be turned on.....I have it off as do many who don't want their e-mail inbox flooded...dependind how many you get of course.....but I would still wait ....

[Tbites]

My son has been really sick i have been in and out of the hospital and i cant get into my messages please if you had a trade with me please send me your address and what i owed you and i will fix it asap . Sorry everyone

Well I left my first negative to the trader above today, no idea if the hospital sorry is true or not but there's been noooo communication on her part. Considering the missing trades date back to March and several traders are missing trades from her, I'm surprised I'm the only person to leave a neg.

[alicia]

How long do you generally hold out hope on a trade? I finalized a trade April 29th and it was supposed to be dropped in the mail that day. She received my end within a week (NS to ON) but never left me a trade rating (found that odd even after I confirmed she received my end). I PMd her after two weeks asking if she had sent it because I received other trades from nearby her within 4 days. She then said her mail was wonky and it takes up to four weeks sometimes. She did give me the option of resending it or waiting a bit and I chose waiting a bit hoping it would turn up. Well it is now a month so I PMd again yesterday saying I would like the replacement and she was on today in her PMs but no response. I am hopeful she will respond (and she has a perfect, high trade rating) but I don't want to be out $30 in FPC.

[flyingdutch]

I left a negative for this trader. It's been over a month and no communication from her and no sign of her end of the trade. I'm really sorry that I gave her a chance, in light of her past trade experiences, I guess she really wasn't "reformed"...

Still waiting on my trade with tammy7769 to come through. It's been 3 weeks. User hasn't been online since Apr 18 (the day we set up the trade) and she's not responding to PMs or wall posts.

Should I consider this a lost cause?

[salady]

What's a reasonable time to wait for a trade to arrive within a province (Ontario)? I'm thinking I may have been duped. I traded with two people who live in the same area and mailed the two trades at the same time - one of them received my trade within 3 days and I got theirs on the same day. The other person has not acknowledged receiving mine nor have I received her end of the trade and it's been a week. I was getting bad vibes from this one right from the start... Guidance needed please!

[floweredangel]

What's a reasonable time to wait for a trade to arrive within a province (Ontario)? I'm thinking I may have been duped. I traded with two people who live in the same area and mailed the two trades at the same time - one of them received my trade within 3 days and I got theirs on the same day. The other person has not acknowledged receiving mine nor have I received her end of the trade and it's been a week. I was getting bad vibes from this one right from the start... Guidance needed please!

I always wait at least a month before being concerned. However, if a trade doesn't feel right from the beginning I don't go through with it.

[cherielake]

What's a reasonable time to wait for a trade to arrive within a province (Ontario)? I'm thinking I may have been duped. I traded with two people who live in the same area and mailed the two trades at the same time - one of them received my trade within 3 days and I got theirs on the same day. The other person has not acknowledged receiving mine nor have I received her end of the trade and it's been a week. I was getting bad vibes from this one right from the start... Guidance needed please!

I sent a train once to jenp (my second train ever) mailed it out Aug 26th or 28th (lastyear) and she didn't receive it until october! I mean wow. She only live 4 hours away same province. Sometimes CP losses things, but finds them again. Hopefully you didn't get "duped" and that it'll arrive shortly. Did you try Pm'ing the person. I find communication is key. I did a gc trade twice with the same lady the first one was super fast less then a week (im in MB and shes in BC) but the second took alot longer from me to her 2 weeks and her to me 5. So sometimes its just a waiting game. I know it sucks but other then that there is nothign else we can do but sit and stare at out mail boxes. I dont like leaving negatives and always hope for the best. I have my fingers crossed you get yout trade soon