Everyones busting my balls so to speak

For everyones information...
I have no been logging on and logging off. Its my fiance who also shares this account, he just comes online and doesnt realized it auto signs in and then goes away. He just checks out the site, he has no use for it.
So therefore, people are thinking that I have logged in and read there messages and then logged off and ignored them.
For over a month, We have been dealing with what could have been a MAJOR medical concern with our youngest son.
We were having multiple tests done, ect... Actually come to think of it I even wrote to A member on here telling here I couldnt do any trading or didnt need any coupons because I was having problems and that was the last time I had wrote. Then after we get the results, and my son gets treatment I log on here and get a ton of negativity, and negative feedback. I am not committed to this couponing forum, I am here to talk and chat, and thats about it and make a deal. When I logged back on this forum, All I got was negative comments. And thats after I told an admin what was going on. I got no justification and no sympathy whatsoever.I have decided not to trade with ANYONE other than local people. Which is the reason for posting my hair dye coupon for FREEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE.... And then once again someone rains on my parade as if I am a bad trader...
Anyhow. If yall doing believe me, this is my son now with his orthotic helmet, Hes got positional placiocephaly, and was being tested for a more rare medical condition of crainisynositis lamdoid suture.... And could have never major surgery, As a mother I lost a ton of sleep over it, the last thing I thought of was trying to get to a post office to mail out a stamp or coupon!

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I'm sorry to here that. I hope everything works out. Your son looks like quite the lil charmer, such big eyes.

It's so scary to be a parent when your child is sick. I sincerely hope him a quick recovery. Take care of yourself and your family.

I noticed you weren't posting, I thought it was because you went back to work and were too busy to post. I feel for you. I'm scared to get into trading, people seem too serious about it and scared I will screw up....

I hope your son and your family will be ok....some people are too quick to judge, don't let it stand in your way.

I just dont bother to trade anymore. I will make good on my previous trades, I just didnt like everyone jumping down my throat within minutes of my son getting his results.

So sorry to hear what you have been going through! Scarey to say the least for you and your entire family. Thoughts and prayers are with you all! Hugs

:girl_hug: I'm sorry.

I noticed you weren't posting but thought you'd landed the job you'd mentioned and thought nothing of it. I know you'd been having appts at the IWK because you'd mentioned it when we were trying to set up a time to meet. Hope your son gets better soon.

sorry to hear about your son, I have a friend who's son has a simuliar dianoses, when he was small, now he is has grown to be quite a man.

Sorry to hear.

((((hugs))))) - hope all works out for you - sending positive thoughts and prayers to your son and family as you go through this difficult time :)

Sorry to hear about your little guy's troubles. Sending good vibes to your family.

I hope you and your family is dealing with this as best you can. Sending well wishes to all of you.

P.S. (I was new to the forum when you stopped posting but I was always in awe of your deals.)

Take care of your son. Forget everyone else. Are people expected to post on here?

Sorry to hear about your son. Hope everything works out ok for you and your family.

There needs to be a solution to this - the treatment you claim to have recieved is UNACCEPTABLE. I have often been concerned on "making good" on trades (the consequences) and such when LIFE happens. You sound like a tough Mom though, channel that strength into a positive future for that little cutie of yours!! HUGS

Sorry to hear that people are giving you a hard time/
I know for one Im not uber commited to this site or anything like that; I come here for deals, and to post deals, the trades I cant be bothered with most of the time because people seem to think that their garbage pickings are worth alot more then they are.
I wouldn't let it upset you.
you have more importaint things to worry about then what a few immature people on a forum say.

I find sometimes that some people put couponing above everything...It is important in my life, without it, it would be way more difficult to make ends meet....but like you, I would NEVER put anything above my children and their wellbeing...don't worry about what others think or say...just look into those big bright eyes of his and know in your heart what's more important:)

Sorry to hear about your son.. I too thought that you had gotten the job u mentioned,
I have a trade that is in mia but for the postL reason,mailed from out west and the trader was in a accident at the same time... am I worried no,,family and health comes first..

I am so sorry to hear about your little boy, and no wonder you have been preoccupied! I am new to this whole couponing thing and haven't figured it all out yet. I do know that being the mom of a sick child is difficult and it is a challenge to be brave.