I 'was about to 'fire' one of my doctors..
I have seen a specialist (not a surgeon) for 3 years now. For one thing I find I'm not receiving much help from her. Everytime I go in I feel like she is putting me down. For example "If Dr. Smith who is top notch doctor can't help then nobody else will want to help you." That's just one thing that has been said to me..I have alot of older injuries from domestic abuse. Some I will have to live with and other problems are cropping up and causing problems that are ongoing.Worse pain, function etc. I've had a few surgeries for older injuries.
When she makes comments like above it just drives me more to find the help I need!
I realize doctors do give bad news and sometimes you do have to live with certain health problems. I feel as though there is something wrong and need a second or third opinion.
At the end of yesterday's appt I planned on letting her go. Not in a rude way. Before I opened my mouth she said to me I don't think I can help you anymore and that was it.
The waiting list to see a surgeon in another Province is around 2 years for a consult. My neighbour said I should save money and go to the USA for help sooner. I don't have alot of money but I'm saving like crazy. I did look up one surgeon in the USA who said he could help me. Also one in Vancouver, BC. I already know the cost of one surgery which is isn't too bad. Of course need money for airfare, hotel etc.
I'm bound and determined to get help!