I'm so beside myself and very upset
I'VE BEEN SITTING ON THIS FOR AWHILE TRYING TO THINK HOW I AS A MOM OF 2, ADULT KIDS. IN 2009 MY SON MEET A GIRL AT A BAR, SHE TRIED TO CHANGE HIM RIGHT FROM THE START OF THEM MEETING, SHE TOLD HIM THAT SHE COULDN'T GET PREGNANT FOR THREE YEARS, SUMMER OF 2009 MY NEIGBOURS HAD A BABY GIRL AND MOM SAID SHE WAS GOING TO CUT HER HAIR I SAID DONT BECAUSE SHE WAS ONLY ABOUT A COUPLE OF MONTHS OLD I SAID SHE WAS TO YOUNG BECAUSE SHE HAS BEAUTIFUL JET BLACK HAIR, ANYWAYS TO MAKE A LONG STORY SHORT HIS GIRLFRIEND HAD SAID THAT WASN'T GOING TO BE THEIR KIDS WAITED FOR HER TO GO HOME ASKED SON ABOUT WHAT SHE SAID AND ASKED HIM IF HE WAS GOING TO MARRY HER OR PLANNING ON HAVING A KID WITH HER, HE SAID NO, I TOLD HIM, I HEARD WHAT SHE HAD SAID , I TOLD HIM IF YOU ARE PLANNING ON HAVING KIDS YOU WILL BE MARRIED FIRST THEN KIDS LATER, LOW AND BEHOLD ONE MONTH LATER AFTER HE BROKEUP WITH HER SHE CAME AND TOLD HIM, SHE WAS PREGNANT HE HAD COME TO ME AND TOLD ME, I TOLD HIM, YOUR GOING TO HAVE A PATERNITY TEST. HE SAID THAT SHE WASNT GOING TO TAKE HIM TO COURT LOW AND BEHOLD SHE DID TAKE HIM TO COURT AND I TOLD HIM HE MUST CAME AND TELL ME WHEN SHE DOES BECAUSE HE WAS NOT GOING TO GO THROUGH THIS OWN HIS OWN,, I DONT CARE WHAT PEOPLE THINK OF THAT STATEMENT, HE WENT THROUGH IT ON HIS OWN NOT KNOWING WHAT WAS GOING TO HAPPEN FOUND OUT WHEN PAPERS CAME IN MAIL, HE DIDNT HAVE A PATERNITY TEST MY HUSBAND AND I MADE HIM GO BACK TO GET ORDERS FOR A PATERNITY TEST BABY WAS HIS. MY HUSBAND AND I TALKED AND WE SAID THAT WE WOULD LIKE TO GET TO KNOW HER BECAUSE SHE HAD OUR GRANDBABY WE WENT FOR FAMILY PICTURES AND WE ALL (even her), SPENT ALOT OF TIME WITH HER AND EVEN GOT MY SON AND HER BACK TOGETHER TWICE BUT SHE IS CONTROOLING AND TRY TO BE MY SONS MOTHER HES GOT A MOM THANK YOU EVERY MUCH AND PUTS HIM IN HIS PLACE WHEN NEEDED STILL TO THIS DAY TO MAKE A EVEN LONGER STORY SHORTER HAD GRANDBABY SINCE HE WAS 11MONTHS OLD WHEN SHE WENT BACK TO WORK SHE WAS NOTHING BUT RUDE AND REVENGEFUL, TOWARDS MY SON AND ME AND MY HUSBAND BABY IS NOW OVER 2 YERS OLD AND NOW IT A FIGHT IN COURT FOR MY SON FOR ACCESS TO HIS SON BABY LOVES US ALL . SHE IS NOW OUT OF FAMILY HER CHOICE SHE WENT AS FAR AS ACTING LIKE WIFE TO MY HUSBAND THAT JUST DOESNT WASH WITH US. WE JUST NOW WANT GRANDBABY.:mad::evil::evil: SHE IS EVIL LITTLE GIRL.