Husband getting suspicious, need help
Long story short, I am tired of my husband. I want to get a divorce but I don't want to split 50/50. I want to keep my money. I made up a story to him saying that my parents don't work and can't support themselves so I give them all my income. He accepted this at first, but lately he has been telling me that I should stop or at least reduce the money flow to my parents. Basically all his income goes into the bills and the house and whatever. We keep arguing saying that I need to help pay but I keep telling him I have to support my parents.
He keeps getting angry and I am running out of excuses. I need to transfer money a little at a time not to arouse suspicion. In 2 months I will file for divorce but until then I need to keep him off my back so I can put all my assets into my parents name, that way he can't take anything of mine.
Anything I can tell him to throw him off balance until then? I was going through his computer and I found out he asked on another forum <link removed> for advice and they are telling him to file for a divorce, but I can't let that happen until I transfer everything.
Husband getting suspicious, need help
You're poop out of luck if you think transferring assets gets you off the equalization hook. What a dirty thing to do when a marriage breaks down.
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Husband getting suspicious, need help
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Originally Posted by
mwieler
I get so sad when I hear someone wants to get a divorce. When you got married you both said 'I Do....for better or worse'. Why then when things get 'worse', people start giving up on their marriage?
I once heard somewhere, "when things start getting bad, think of what brought you two together, how you felt about eachother when you were dateing and start treating and courting eachother like you did back then". I think couples should always 'work' at their marriage,find ways to show eachother your love and respect,have a date night,etc. ALWAYS try to see the good in the other person,I know that can be hard sometimes, but if you 'want' to, you 'can' work it out.(The key word here is 'want' to) If you constantly look at the negative things, then there is no way you'll work it out.
There is nothing to save if it's an abusive marriage; you can't paint them all with the same brush.
Just sayin'
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