Originally Posted by
Armygirl76
I will share a personal story with you about self image. 2 1/2 years ago i had to have a surgical operation because of my cancer that resulted in a divise being placed on my stomach (it is visable in tight clothing and embarrising). A year later i had not put on a swim suit we were in Disneyland at the pool and I was sitting on the side of the pool. My dd looked at me and said Mom please come in, to which i replied Hunny i can't people will see the outline in my swimsuit. DD got out of the pool walked up to me and said. Mom you can sit on the sidelines worring about what a bunch of strangers think, or you can get in the pool with the people who love you and dont give a crap what you look like on the outside. (DD was 12) I got in the pool lol. Let the people who love you tell you how you look, they are much more honest.