How do you deal with this kind of BOSS
OMG.:mad: how do you deal with a boss who gets personal and defensive when you mention that you have got an interview for a position above your current one and outside of the company and those people who interviewed you want your boss's reference? OMG, I had this happended to me :evil:and it was just frustrating, and I feel so frustrated because I feel that I can't grow and I am stuck. At the same time I feel angry that she is controlling me :mad:??? She would not help me grow!!!:mad: What do I do? If my boss is not happy she wouldn't give me a good reference or no reference at all, and the interviewing company will get suspicious...OMG:mad: I need the reference...Want to scream.....
My boss says thing like, Oh, are you leaving us? Well, yes, because I want to grow, not that I don't like the company, but she doesn't get it...... and she says things like, if I ever knew that you wanted to leave, I would not have hired you..OMG..... Awrr.... so frustrated.....honestly, if I ever knew that she would give me this kind of reaction when I ask for reference....I would not have accepted the job in the first place... I am STUCK....please help! how do you deal with this kind of boss?