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    besides all the basics, i would really like to instill in my kids a sense of confidence and self respect.

    i believe that if they are confident in their abilities (not arrogant or conceited) and they make decisions that honor their sense of self respect, they will be happy, satisfied and accomplished when it comes to providing for themselves and being in relationships.

    it probably sounds a little weird, but i think those are 2 areas we tend to fail miserably at, or take a long time figuring out. i am hoping that if they have a good sense of self respect and belief in their own abilities plus the ability to recognize their own strengths and weaknesses it will allow them to go for what they desire and believe in with a good solid foundation to ensure they make positive decisions.

    i just want them to be happy, and not get lost in confusion, a poor sense of self worth or fear about following their passions
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    Not as much pearls of wisdom but I had always vowed that if I were ever blessed with a child I would expose them to everything and everything. From piano lessons to art to baseball to broccoli to new languages and travel to new countries and cultures and some of the basic fears or interests would be resolved or sparked. (Experience life and learn everything that is possible and don't be afraid to discover). Complete opposite of what I grew up from. (Never stop growing).

    I also agree with everyones pearls.

    What is your conclusion westcoastblondie?
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    Every thing I do as a parent to make my children good citizens can be summed up in this.

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    I hope my kids grow up with a great sense of compassion and humility. I think a lot of people in this world seem to be lacking it.
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    ^ compassion and humility, bang on!

    Hubby and I were talking about this yesterday, and how most people just can't let go and allow their humility lead them through life.

    it's a sad fate for this world when people stop being compassionate
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    Thanks to everyone for answering. It's nice to hear so many different perspectives. Another one I think is really important (of course I'm not a parent so I don't know as much as you guys do) is accountability. I think it's important to teach accountability as well.
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