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Mon, Oct 7th, 2013, 01:15 PM #16
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thanks for the reply, but to add more detail to it...my sister who do no respect me as her older sister at all, who calls me "a , a moron...and said I have raised hell for her and the whole family",honestly I have never done her wrong in any ways, I don't know why she is like that, or may be she got overly spoiled, but sorry that is not the sister that I wanted. Me and her were never close even when as a kid. We had totally different hobbits, different likes and everything. She had always looked me down, all because she is the smarter one who gets straight As and parent are always on her side. I m not quite sure if I wanted my kids to have this kinda of aunt. you see, I did thank for my mom for taking care of me for 10 years of my life(the first 6 years my grandmom took care of me), that was why I made that phone call. I could of just totally block them out and ignore them if I wanted to without even giving a proper conclusion to the problem. for me I was very close to my grandmother who took care of me until I was 6 and until we left the country. My mom have never took care of any of my kids for more than 2 hours and barely see them, humm..may be once in two weeks. I don't see the importance of relationship between my kids and my Parent+Sister here. Of course When they are older and ask me where their grandparent are, I will tell them the truth and if they feel like going to them to pay a visit, I m fine with that too. I have no right to stop the kids from seeing them, but I really doubt that will happen. For myself, I think I m totally done here, I know the fact that they will forever be my parent and I m forever be their daughter until death. I don't think I can ever in the rest of my life accept them back and that is just the way I m, you can call me stubborn, I admit I m. oscarandme what you are trying to say here. Cherish what you have before they are gone, and make no regrets in life. but sorry I don't Cherish people who have treated me like that and the what-so-call sister that I had. I have thought the problem thou from every directions possible for the last 10 years and there is definitely no regrets here. to be honest it took me loads of confidence to have this conversation with my mom the other night. Before I had always thought may be I can just record it on tape and let her hear it herself, so I don't have to speak straight to her. I m soooo relieve after I hanged up, like a 10 tons rock just left my mind.
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Mon, Oct 7th, 2013, 01:49 PM #17
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Cinpow you are amazing! I am proud of you for finishing school and building your own great family. Every child is different and you are one that makes their own future happen on your own terms. I bet that secretly your parents are insanely proud of that part of you. Not fessing up and not helping you seems to push you forward and you thrive so well. Perhaps your parents understand that about you.
Anyway... You have a whole group of people right here who respect and are thankful for you being here everyday. No matter what happens with your family we are proud of your accomplishments and we are so happy to see you here every day. ~Big Hugs!~Swagbucks, Earn 30 - $50 a month in surveys plus cash backs on your spending. You have to work at it, but it is WORTH it and it can help you buy some Christmas presents for free with Amazon gift cards or paypal payments. Referral link http://www.swagbucks.com/refer/cheekysaver
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Mon, Oct 7th, 2013, 02:35 PM #18
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the one sad thing here was my mom did not sound like she even care much about the fact that I m cutting the line here, and will very be possible that she will never hear from me ever again. She has also agree not to contact me from that day on. She totally seems fine with it. after all is not something new, is it. during all those years that I was out, she did not bother contacting me or even trying to find out how I was doing. may be this was just a normal thing for her anyways..
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Mon, Oct 7th, 2013, 04:33 PM #19
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That is wonderful cinpow, you have covered all your bases and have gone down every avenue. I want to be supportive and I truly am I just did not want to just say way to go and leave it at that because you are so kind and generous and always helpful on SC and we are well aware that you are reading, helping and listening and would not want any regrets and you have everything covered and are ready to move on. Well Congratulations on your decision and you know we are here for you. I am certain it took alot of courage and keep persevering and the sky is the limit. Keep reaching for those stars. Good luck.
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Mon, Oct 7th, 2013, 04:52 PM #20
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thanks for the comment, couponing is starting to plays an important role oin my life now, not only I can benefit from cutting down my budget, but sometimes when I m feeling down, I will go to the store to doing some couponing, that actually can cheer me up somehow. of course, given it was a smooth shop...
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Tue, Oct 8th, 2013, 12:46 AM #21
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You've lead a very difficult life and have learned to cope through and rise above adversity. I'm impressed how you've been able to go back to school without your family support. Good for you! Education is key in getting where you need to be.
Not all of us are so fortunate to be blessed to belong to families with personalities that get along but at the end of the day blood is blood. I believe your mother loves you, as a mother myself I can not imagine otherwise.
I hope one day you understand one another and can have a relationship.
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