asking for clothes then selling online

[goulaisgirl]

My girlfriend asked for some summer tops as she just lost alot of weight and is low on funds. so i let her take some of my tops that she stated she liked. and then the next day i see she posted them online auction.

[peachies]

WTF!!!!!..Are you serious..I would be confronting her about it. Wow..I don't even know what to say

[goulaisgirl]

been thinking about it all day i think i will bid on my stuff and see if she replys

[CrazyQT]

That's so disrespectful. Not someone I would consider a friend by any means.

[HappyCouponSaver78]

Oh no!

[luckbealady]

I'd confront the friend - tell her you gave her the clothes to wear, not sell - if you had wanted to just get rid of them you would have sold them yourself.

If she shows no remorse for her actions (actually she should just give you the stuff back), I'd wipe my hands of the friend, for she is no friend at all - she is someone who takes, and will continue to take.

[Shwa Girl]

Not someone I would consider a friend by any means.

Agree.
Friend? No
Fiend? Yes

[maggiespice]

Keep in mind she said that she was low on funds, however saying that,
not the best way to go about trying to make a few bucks!!!

[CanadianCouponCollector]

... I, too would confront her. That's very un-friendly like.

[SavvyLady]

I would tell her, " I saw you posted my clothes on Kijiji", and that I appreciate it very much, once she gets the money for you, you can tell her you'll take her for a coffee to thank her!!!

[anisa]

just go over and ask for them back.

then stay away from her, she's a bit loopy if that's how she treats friends!

[beckie.c]

What?? Seriously, some people, that is pretty rude.

I would tell her, " I saw you posted my clothes on Kijiji", and that I appreciate it very much, once she gets the money for you, you can tell her you'll take her for a coffee to thank her!!!

^^ Yes!

[Ciel]

Tell your soon-to-be ex-friend that you know she put the clothes up for sale and she basically lied to you. Wouldn't bother asking for tops back-say goodbye to her and that she's no longer your friend.

Wait a second-did she also put her "old" clothes up for sale? Because if they don't fit, then they would be for sale unless she already sold them. Must be a debt issue.

[torontogal12]

Did she think these were a "gift" that she could do whatever she wants with?

Or did you make it clear that these were for personal use.

I know it is even ridiculous we have to ask these things but it is possible. Regardless I think you need to make it clear that you could still use these yourself and these were not given to her to make profits but rather to help her clothe herself in a time of financial need

[Decaf]

How long have you two been friends? If it's not long, time to say goodbye. If you 2 have been friends for ages and she desperately need money (short of selling a kidney) talk to her.