Starting baby on a routine?
Hi! I have 5 and 7 year old boys, and a beautiful 3 week old baby boy. I would like to start the baby on a bit of a routine, although I totally understand it needs to be flexible at this age. I honestly do not remember what I did with my first two kids :P So far I have been trying to wake him at 7 am to feed, then he sleeps until around 9 am, takes another bottle and goes down for a nap until 12 or 12:30. After that, I pretty much just follow his cues but try to wake him every 3 hours (he usually doesn't sleep that long). But I have some questions....
1. Should I put him to bed at the same time every night? Does this help even if he doesn't go to sleep and starts to cry right away?
2. What do I do if the routine gets messed up? My mother-in-law lives right next door and sometimes she takes him at night. I am so grateful for this but she doesn't follow the routine....it's not often, but what do I do in that case, just keep to it the rest of the day?
Thanks for the help! There's so much space between this guy and the older two that sometimes I feel like I'm dealing with my first child all over again lol!