January 2019 Frugal Chatter thread (New Year, new calendars)
Yesterday was a horrible day to me...I went a appointment then went to A&W for lunch. Then went to superstore and went shopping I laid out to my mother I had not much money. I told her to stop and adding things to the cart. She told me to get A, B, C. I didn’t or couldn’t cover that at all. But as soon as we got to the check out I started to thin down the cart. What I didn’t know was she was putting everything back on the conveyor belt. Went to pay I was choked it was 250$ I only had 80$. She started to become aggressive. At this point she is yelling and screaming at me making a huge scene. The store manager comes over and tells her to calm down, to stop her abusive behaviour towards me. Basically ushering her out the store. I notice in the parking lot the store manager following us. He is on the phone with 911. They show up just after I put all the groceries into her car. The rcmp swarm the vehicle as I am sitting in the passenger side. They think it is me who did it until the store manager comes over to them it wasn’t. At this point she thinks it was me and goes to lay a hand on me. The RCMP officers step in front of me. Next thing I know I am shaking and crying. She is given a ticket warning I don’t know for what but it was 500$ minimum if not paid in 15days and 750$ of paid in 30 days. She is calm enough to be let go and drives me home. She didn’t say nothing to me, we left the parking lot and get onto the hwy. she is going in and out of cars at a high speed without a turn signal almost caused 3 accidents. I notice out of the side mirror there is many cop cars following us as she is dodging in and out of traffic. There is already some cruisers in the parking lot of the laundromat across the street. After I get all my groceries and go inside they swarm her car and make it so she doesn’t go anywhere.
I got a text from my sister whose in Vernon visiting her bf. Saying mom cannot talk to me until something court.
I had to cancel all my appointments over the river. Except the last two weeks I didn’t because the person said I could have those sessions for how much I could give her in payment. Whenever I got paid and she takes payment in google play gift cards if I so choose.
I was sitting in my room minding my own business. When I got an angry FB message about cutting someone off the internet. I was frustrated already since I had stopped being doormat to everyone New Year’s Day. I told them i choose who I want on it and it’s fing expensive. They told me to name my price I said 25$ they came back and low balled $15. Inside my head I felt used and abused they weren’t real friends if all they cared about was using my wifi signal. They didn’t ask how I was doing nor cared to be fing nice about any of it. They were rude and inconsiderate. In the end I blocked all there FB accounts even on messenger. This was a long time coming I had given 3 chances and I wasn’t in the mood to give a 4th. I wrote a status on FB about it stating I was no longer a doormat for anyone and to check their hat at the door before leaving their house.
I am proud of myself for taking the proper steps for my sanity. There is only me to please in life not others. I need to put myself first in order to be present for those I choose to be in my circle. I am a little mad that I allowed this to go for months in 2018. But no more now in 2019.
I received in the mail yesterday my boost samples and a coupon.
Today I received a refund from a place I bought a poster at from a third party seller on Amazon. They were in California I gather...they said they were suspending international shipping because of lockout of government employees.
I got my GST today all 126+$ of it. I had to pay my Debt Management Program first before I did anything. I have 42+$ remaining.
today will be a good day for us all.
I am giving away 3 garbage bags full of bottles to someone doing a bottle drive for a local sports team. I support sports because I used to play them. And know the importance it makes the difference on a child to be able to be within a team and learn leadership and team building skills. When I was a kid I played soccer, basketball and badminton.
I figured there was about roughly 5-10$ of empties.
I also bought a carton of cheap smokes for 35$.
Anyway I think I said to much or too little I am not sure.
I bought a cheesecake at superstore for $6. I was thinking of having that for something to eat but I don’t think so. the free items for the 250$ was two boxes of wings. I don’t eat wings I fit one into my freezer for someone and gave the other one away down the hall. They were rather receptive then usual when I brought the box. I also gave them some parchment paper for their baking sheet And a can of icing.
I haven’t decided what I want to spend the remainder of my money on. I’ll figure it out and talk with you all later.
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