Originally Posted by
bargain_hunter_lola
You have good points, Sally is busy and trying to work it out will ensure she receives less PM's but publically "airing dirty laundry" or "flinging dirt" at each other is un-necessary in my opinion. Not saying any particular person in this thread does that, just that it's been happening more and more lately.
I too have had many wondeful trading experiences, which is why I'm a "top" trader. I love it! I think in my 500 unique trades (over 1000 trades overall), I've given maybe 2-3 negative ratings.
My combative comment was based on pre-rating experience. I think everything adds up to a trade rating. For example, someone makes numerous mistakes and then when you bring it up, they are very combative. It makes the other person (in most cases) just want to move on and not deal with the person. That was my original point.
I understand you're point about being combative after the fact but for myself even then, I'd be trying to recitfy the problem. If I messed up a train, I'd be sending some sort of replacement (probably fpc's or a gc) but that's just me.
BP's cover your postage to mail back and the work to sort, organize, verify, use your own envies to mail back, etc. It does NOT cover people's errors. I'm glad you've had good experience with people saying TY for fixing errors but it's not always the case - which is just SAD. Many times my polite pm's are simply ignored. As I said before, I'm always so appreciative when someone says a simple TY. It really means a lot to me.
I've always felt that the trading ratings are based on following rules. If people are to receive a positive rating as long as they send the train on, it's saying it's okay to not follow rules that are set by the conductor that each rider agreed on by joining the train. Personally I think that's a very bad precendent to set. JMHO.