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Sat, Jun 28th, 2014, 11:00 PM #16
I don't get it. There has to be something going on with him that has absolutely nothing to do with what you said. I don't see anything offensive about your text.
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Sat, Jun 28th, 2014, 11:11 PM #17
I think he over reacted. You have known each other for a long time and he would know how both of you joke and banter back and forth. I didn't find what you said offensive. Is it possible he was having a bad day, maybe going through something personal that made him act this way? Hopefully he will realize and come around.
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Sat, Jun 28th, 2014, 11:28 PM #18
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To me...Your co-worker is sounding rather entitled to your services as a driver..
Offering a lift is one thing, but expecting one every day is another.
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Sun, Jun 29th, 2014, 12:14 PM #19
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Absolutely! Couldn't agree more. Although offering to help with a lift now and than is courteous, feeling obligated to so is awkward and personally I would never ever want to drive someone every day. Too much stress being on time, going straight home rather than having flexible plans after work....would he expect to tag along on your after-work dates or errand runs?
I think this worked out rather nicely for you, truth be told. Just a guess, but it seems as if he felt there was a understanding between you two about his intrusion into your life, and your little joke, as innocent as it was, likely reinforced to him, that he was butting in, and that you had "caught on".
Whew! I think you dodged a bullet there!
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Sun, Jun 29th, 2014, 12:16 PM #20
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Sounds like your friend cant take a joke!
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Sun, Jun 29th, 2014, 12:58 PM #21
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Win.. where ya been?? life good ? hope its treating you well
just brush it off my friend.Be Strong
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Sun, Jun 29th, 2014, 03:10 PM #22
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Sun, Jun 29th, 2014, 08:19 PM #23
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I am the type of person who likes to joke around but when I sense someone who doesn't like or tells me they don't want to joke that day ... I'd stop joking around.
People who I talk to and close to, then i would joke alot.
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Mon, Jun 30th, 2014, 08:41 PM #24
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I have never seen someone with this type of attitude ... I am not the first person he has done it to, so I wasn't hit with a surprise.
I don't mind losing him as a friend as some of you have stated and I've relized ... he's all nice when he's in need but when he's "done" he kinda brushes off the person.
I treat all my friends with the same respect as how a person would like to be treated.
I just brought this up to get him off my mind and get along with my life and make new friendsLast edited by FallenPixels; Wed, Jul 2nd, 2014 at 10:49 AM. Reason: removed quote from deleted post
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Tue, Jul 1st, 2014, 12:25 PM #25
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I guess he's just a proctological nuisance with everyone, so no reflection on you joking with him. Might have a screw loose, best to keep it a business and not a friendly relationship. At the very least, he has a short fuse! You're good people, Win, and I'm sure there are better friends in your future....hugs!
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Tue, Jul 1st, 2014, 12:34 PM #26
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Tue, Jul 1st, 2014, 09:37 PM #27
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Let the friend be; perhaps some basic thaw will come back in your friendship. Maybe a colleague at work will divulge if friend is explaining why he felt offended.
But given recent hot weather, your friend may have worried at possible loss of ride in the heat or someone has stood him up in past on a ride, thus his reaction. I reacted this way recently-someone promised a ride on a couple of occasions. The second time it fell through, I let person know I was not happy and why.
We are each different in our ability to respond to what seems as a simple matter. But that adage about the same situation is seen differently by each person observing the situation applies here. The friend did not like the joke; maybe he'll share why when the event is more distant.2021-Bring on the sunshine, sweets & online shopping.
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Tue, Jul 1st, 2014, 10:46 PM #28
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Even If I am at work, I try to make friends there also!!
No matter where I am, I try to broaden/widen my friendship [if this makes sense When at work, i mix friends and work [depending on the situation] i know that's not a good idea but so far it's working with the "better" friends I made at work [except for this one out of the ordinary]
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Tue, Jul 1st, 2014, 11:33 PM #29
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Such a weird response.
If it was me, I'd be tempted to say I found his response to the joke offensive - and that if he feels that the friendship is over because he didn't find the joke funny, then maybe the friendship wasn't worth much to start with.
I can understand having a bad day, and then someone's joke just bugs you even more - but if after a day or two you can't recognize that you overreacted and apologize, then I think that person is actually rather selfish and self absorbed. There really are some people who wait for someone to say/do something they don't like, and then use that to somehow build themselves up. The guy just sounds annoying now.
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Wed, Jul 2nd, 2014, 08:11 AM #30
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There was nothing offensive about what you said. You didn't say anything bad about him, or vulgar.
What you said was sarcasm and he doesn't understand the difference.
Maybe next time you shouldn't be joking and he'll learn a valuable lesson to lighten up
Or you should say something about how he should respect and tip the chauffeur?
That'll hopefully quash stupid comments like that. Don't worry about it, you were definitely not in the wrong hereLast edited by torontogal12; Wed, Jul 2nd, 2014 at 08:14 AM.
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