thanks anyways, I'll keep my eyes and ears open...it's still awhile away, but I thought I would start now .Thanks for your suggestions, I appreciate it.

Actually, I just looked at their website and found only a few dresses below $300, so I'm sorry I underestimated the pricing- but perhpas there's an outlet nearby. There was also a "Save $100 on purchases over $400" BCBG coupon/card thing that we got in the mail (perhaps you might get it?) if you are forced to buy a dress. It's still a bit much but just letting you know Best of luck again!

thank you & thanks for the rep!