On the eve of our wedding, my wife and I came to an agreement. As it was our plan that she should be a homemaker, it would make sense that she would make all the day-to-day decisions in the running of our household. As I was the typical alpha male type, I reserved the right to make any major decisions that would affect our lives. This has worked out very well. In thirty years of marriage there has never been a major decision. We wish you both much happiness together.