LMAO At least you have a plan I say screw the house and go get a massage!

I have a feeling I will be a bumbling crying mess, and after that, gonna try and get the house organized.

Ooooooooooh it'll be quiet. I hope you have a hobby you're looking forward to. I'm thinking that first day might be nerve racking.

I love that statement, and so agree. I wish at times I was able to spend more time with them, and now this year they are both starting school, the oldest will be going everyday and the youngest every other, so it's going to be a big adjustment around here.

The 2 best gifts you can give your children are a sympathetic ear and an eduction. KUDOS my dear friend

Oh how true. Since we both work, we don't get alot for baby bonus but what we do get, we don't see cause we put it towards there education funds and add to it so both get $100 a month each. I figure, we may not be able to leave them alot, but if we can give them three education to make there own money then we did good. They are definetly not going without my two, but compared to what other people give and spend on there children, they are surely not spoiled either.

lmao @ bigger house. I laugh but in this day and age it's a serious concern. can I afford kids? Anyone who doesn't ask themselves that isn't thinking it through IMHO

Our little ones weren't plaaned either, I was told I may have a difficult time having a child, so after we got married and 4 months later I was pregnant it was great news, and then the next one was 25 months later, and at the age I was said, ok, that's enough. I'm getting too old and tired, plus we would need a bigger house, lol.

I totally agree. We miscarried a few times prior to this one and when he came along the timing was perfect. We opted to not use permanent birth control and figure what happens happens. We've just been VERY careful so far LOL. My cousin had hers 13mos apart (unwillingly mind you) but she finds it a lot easier than when she had to start over 4yrs later.

TY mercy for the reps, and you know what, little ones come along when they do for a reason, I wouldn't worry too much, when it happens it will all be great. Good luck.

No problem Mercy, ask away. I'm really dumb when it comes to computer techie crap, but getting around the site, doing contests or coupons, I can always help out with. There's alot to see on here, but once you take a few days and get to know your way around, it's great. A good way to get to know folks is in the tearoom, many members just gab about what's going on in there lives and different chats happen there.

Hi Moe,

Thanks for the WC. I'll be sure to seek you out if I need anything. I'm still in the process of learning this site

Hello Mercy and Welcome to SC. If you have any questions, just give a shout, Moe.