Oooh, SO GLAD that I came on here.
Shigashira and I did a trade a couple of weeks ago, I insisted that they send their end first (I'm not new to this game, lol). She was worried about me scamming her!! After quite a few PM's back and forth I assured her that I was not out to scam her and that as soon as I received her end I would mail out mine. Needless to say I have not received anything, so I checked her profile page and saw banned. Which led me here of course! :) PHEW.