I definitely just giggled thinking about you saying that.:lolsign:Quote:
Originally Posted by MercyEhm
I definitely just giggled thinking about you saying that.:lolsign:Quote:
Originally Posted by MercyEhm
lol you KNOW I said it out loud too hahaha
Honestly, honker, in your situation I would have left neutral as you did not get the correct amount out of it as agreed.
The problem with leaving it hidden is that if they are on a train, especially a wishlist train or is a conductor, its very very easy to bury it on the second page or further very quickly and like you said, you dont read back pages. If someone has a 100% rating, I dont feel the need to check their actual feedback, it seems positive.
I personally know CP can be awful, but I would buy a GC to replace a trade gone wrong if I did not have the coupons for it and not leave the other person 'out' unless it was someone I trade with regularly that I could say the next one is free etc
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Did you message Caring?Quote:
Originally Posted by army_girl29
Just wondering. I'm a polite person by nature and never want to offend anyone, even inadvertently. How long after an agreed to trade is it okay to pm someone asking if they've sent it out? It's been 2 weeks. It's probably just CP, I know they can sometimes take a while. It's a trader with a lot of positive feedback, so I'm sure they're honest. How long should I wait before sending a pm?
I would pm for sure if it has been two weeks...however I have to tell you that I am still waiting for a trade from a 100% positive feedback trader who I trust sent it, but it has been over a month and still nothing here...I pm'd her and I know CP is really bad, especially lately...I would pm her/him, because maybe they just aren't aware that it hasn't gotten to you yet.Quote:
Originally Posted by DaveP
There is never any harm in asking, and as far as I am concerned, if you don't get your end of it, then you are out what you sent...I would at least expect an offer to replace the missing envie, whether I accept it or not is really up to me, sometimes I do, sometimes I just tell them to never mind and they can keep my end as a raok, however if there was alot of HV or fpc's in the one I sent them, and they received it, then I make a judgement call then.
It really is up to you, I personally prefer to work out thngs than leave a negative, as sometimes it isn't their fault, but indeed CP.
Considering you have 122 positive feedbacks, and no negatives ever, and that you did agree to replace it, I think in MY personal opinion that it is unfair on the trader to leave you negative feedback...I would pm Caring about this, maybe she can at least make it nuetral...I know it sucks, I don't know why some people choose to leave a negative without looking at the whole picture (trade history, feedback, comments, etc...)I bet it was CP's fault...I have been missing 2 trades that were supposed to be sent to me over a month ago...but I like to give the benefit of the doubt to the other person that it was probably CP, and if they offer to replace it, that makes me think even more that it wasn't their fault.Quote:
Originally Posted by army_girl29
Agree about CP. I have a VWT envelope missing from a rider that I know is reliable and one of my trains is missing too. *Sigh* I guess they're busy around this time of year but still it's annoying.Quote:
Originally Posted by Litesandsirens911
Its beyond annoying, but as long as people are keeping in touch, its not so much of an issue. Its the people who just dont reply that you can guess is a trade gone wrong
Nothing here....
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......and people always ask me why I don't give negative feedback
*dances naked to lighten the mood*
NO LAUGHING!