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[Litesandsirens911]

Honestly, I think people should start naming names. At least. I mean, if you don't really want to give people a negative rating at least let the rest of know who you're talking about. I don't want an unreliable person like that on any one of my trains, nevermind trading with them. People have to start being held accountable for being unreliable.

okay then, it is Sandiecoop1

[Litesandsirens911]

if you look at her wall, you will see I have been very fair...I am really getting tired, and she has last been on again on November 22nd...so basically she came back only for a week, did some trades, got 4 more positive feedbacks, all the while I am STILL waiting for what was promised to me BACK IN JUNE!!

[annedougherty]

if you look at her wall, you will see I have been very fair...I am really getting tired, and she has last been on again on November 22nd...so basically she came back only for a week, did some trades, got 4 more positive feedbacks, all the while I am STILL waiting for what was promised to me BACK IN JUNE!!

Definitely give her negative feedback. If she cares she will make sure she does something to fix the situation for once and for all. If she doesn't care then she deserves the negative rating!

[Litesandsirens911]

I am starting to think that there is not going to BE a solution...are we allowed to post pm's in here without getting in trouble? Cause I can post that so you guys can see what the conversation was...

[ccmp1974]

If the trade was in June she deserve the negative rating.

[annedougherty]

I agree, just based on the circumstances you have described, regardless of the conversation, she should get a negative rating.

[hollyhill]

Ughhh...

I have a very high value trade where I mucked up a few coupons (not FPCs), but I sent 10 HV FPCs, a good for anything J & J FPC, a gas pin form, a movie ticket.. plus many other coupons. for Two $10 GCs. The trader is unhappy about my mistake and wants me to send more FPCs from her wish list (which I don't have) or a $5 GC to make up for my mistake.
I can't afford to really do that. I also think my trade offer was very generous even without the coupon (not FPCs) mistake.

Oh she also, said she wanted all the other FPC's I had mentioned in the trade that we were negotiating with but at the time she hadn't wanted... now she says she did??

I just asked her to send the whole bunch back, and I will send her back her 2 $10 GCs.. is that an OK solution?
She doesn't want to because she is in the process of using the coupons in other trades....

After I had agreed with the trade I was thinking what am I doing... I could use all this stuff, but a GC to SDM and PC I can use for diabetic stuff, I can always drink no-name juice etc.. so I agreed..

[Ceren]

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[Ceren]

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Ughhh...

I have a very high value trade where I mucked up a few coupons (not FPCs), but I sent 10 HV FPCs, a good for anything J & J FPC, a gas pin form, a movie ticket.. plus many other coupons. for Two $10 GCs. The trader is unhappy about my mistake and wants me to send more FPCs from her wish list (which I don't have) or a $5 GC to make up for my mistake.
I can't afford to really do that. I also think my trade offer was very generous even without the coupon (not FPCs) mistake.

Oh she also, said she wanted all the other FPC's I had mentioned in the trade that we were negotiating with but at the time she hadn't wanted... now she says she did??

I just asked her to send the whole bunch back, and I will send her back her 2 $10 GCs.. is that an OK solution?
She doesn't want to because she is in the process of using the coupons in other trades....

After I had agreed with the trade I was thinking what am I doing... I could use all this stuff, but a GC to SDM and PC I can use for diabetic stuff, I can always drink no-name juice etc.. so I agreed..

[Ceren]

,....

[ccmp1974]

I really should stay out of this one!!LOL!! But I will give my thoughts and PLEASE don't hate me for it.
1-If you didn't follow the "rules" of the auction and sent the wrong thing(by mistake)I think she is just in asking for what she is asking for to settle the problem.
2-You should never make a trade with someone until you have the goods in hand. Like my mom always says"Never count your chicken before they hatch."

So that been said you both made mistakes and you should send each other back what you sent. She should be on the hook for a mistake.Maybe she could help you settle you "debt" with the traders you promised the coupons to or just PM them and explain the situation.I am sure they would understand.

[hollyhill]

OK Please tell me what you have left and please send it to me.

Do you want to me to list everything I gave you on this forum? I don't know what happened to the playtex. Because I don't have them. As far as I know I put them in that envelope. I am sorry about the Motts I did muck that one up. I did not misread the rules just the coupon you were asking for in that case. You just kept asking for more and yes, I was silly to keep giving.

[hollyhill]

I really should stay out of this one!!LOL!! But I will give my thoughts and PLEASE don't hate me for it.
1-If you didn't follow the "rules" of the auction and sent the wrong thing(by mistake)I think she is just in asking for what she is asking for to settle the problem.
2-You should never make a trade with someone until you have the goods in hand. Like my mom always says"Never count your chicken before they hatch."

So that been said you both made mistakes and you should send each other back what you sent. She should be on the hook for a mistake.Maybe she could help you settle you "debt" with the traders you promised the coupons to or just PM them and explain the situation.I am sure they would understand.

Yes, she just received the trade today.

[hollyhill]

I wasn'tgoing to accept your offer because it wasn't the amount I was looking for but after you checked your mailbox that same day you said that you have received j&j fpc, then I said I'll take it which I don't need that coupons really but I had someone else asking me for that coupon. I had another bidder who gave me a really good bid, but I accepted your bid, because you really wanted to win the auction and I couldn't say no to you honestly. now you are trying to make me quilty about this.

No I have the e-mails. You accepted the offer before the J &J arrived but you asked me if I had any HV huggies coupons which you were really looking for that I could add on top of my offer. I said I didn't have any babies, but I had just received the J & J coupon and I could send that. Then you said yes.

[FallenPixels]

Maybe take this to PMs?

I agree with ccmp, there were mistakes on both ends since you should never trade coupons you dont have yet

and with an auction format, a new bid could come in higher than yours and therefore the trader can ask for more after a successful bid, but I agree with Ceren that $1.50 WUB2 rather than BOGO Motts is a huge difference

Perhaps you could come to an agreement on which coupons are kept/sent back and send back just one of the $10 cards and Ceren can keep the coupons she needs (as long as the amounts are fair to both of you?)