Thats the biggest issue for dh, is the driving he does alot for his job so when hes driving he smokes and isnt sure what to replace that with. He suggested he might just have to go camping for a week by himself and see if he can quit..lol
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lol haunish that would be sheer torture for him.
Guys there is some weird stuff going on in my family with my brother right now and I need a whole bunch of prayers. Do we have any lawyers and mental health doctors on here that maybe could help me?
Somehow Im thinking there is no lawyer because they have enough money and might not need to save, but here is to hoping. If you know someone, maybe you can PM me.
I'm desperate for help and advise.
working on ebay right now. I will vote more in a while. Phone man came out and said what did the guy do to your phone last month? I said well I didnt even know he showed up. He replaced parts so we will see if the problem stops now. Its gonna rain here tomorrow night so x your fingers for me. I cant go through another weekend with out my peeps.
Prayers for you. Have you looked in phone book and tried to call a lawyer or two. Most places will give free consultations. There are also legal aide lawyers out there as well. Getting one is a bit of paperwork and you have to have a low income to be eligible but if your income is over you can also get a discount from a lawyer that is in the program.
Thnx. Yes he has a lawyer but I'm not sure what he is doing and trying to find out what our options are. I'm getting involved now because my brother is not mentally well all of a sudden due to this legal matter. It's crazy because he was always the rock in the family as the eldest and now suddenly it's like someone put a spell on him because he is completely different. My father just forced him to be admitted to the hospital. He tried to OD this past weekend, I just found out this morning...all over a lawsuit that everyone tells him will be thrown out and even if it is not does not involve jail time, its just friggin money...I've been crying all day but I can't even let it out because I do not want the kids to see me.
I am so sorry Amy. It is hard to have family members go through something like that and sit back having almost no control of the situation at all. After trying to OD it is best he is in the hospital where he is safe and will hopefully realize that trying to end things is not the solution. I will pray for you Amy and I hope that things get better over the next few days.
Amy - so sorry for the problems your brother is having and that family problems always affect the whole family - hope everything works out well for him and that he gets the help he so needs.
For everyone trying to quit smoking - it is so worth it. I will be 6 months on Wednesday after using Champix and that is also the day for a memorial service for my neighbour who just passed on away on Saturday from lung cancer. To see what he went thru the past 6 or 7 months is enough for me to never smoke again. It was not as hard as I thought it would be - first few nights while sitting at puter downstairs (only place I smoked in the house) was a little rough but took a run upstairs for couple minutes and it passed and by end of week was not bad at all. Still have the odd urge but just tell myself no I don't want or need it. Good luck to all who are going to try - it can be done - it just takes willpower.
I'm finally caught up...at least to today's posts!!:razz:
However, if SheKnows keeps the voting like they have it now, you won't be hearing much from me til it's over!;)
I agree about the beard and moustache! That's how he looks best to me! But now that I've watched a bunch of clips of QAF on youtube, any fire that was started has been put out. I can't watch a guy kiss another guy that many times and then still have any desire left for him:redface: Nothing against homosexuals....just wouldn't want to put my mouth where a d*** has been!!!
There is def downvoting going on...believe me!!
nah, just shake your butt a little...LOL!
They can fix it if they want, but if they go back and take away points....now that would start a war!!!
Good, I still have my reputation in tact! Was afraid I was gonna lose it by not being around as much lately!!:smartass:
did you find that the Champix really worked for you leftie and what did you end up doing with your hands to replace the cigarette you were used to having in your hand? I need all the help I can get here to be a non smoker this time. I will be spending the next two weeks working up the strength to start over here.
thanks for the new words
I actually didn't mind it for the most part - right after supper I used to come downstairs for a smoke and that was the one I missed the most - so instead of heading downstairs I would get right up and do the dishes and by the time I got downstairs I was pretty good. Wasn't bad at work as I had to go outside to smoke so I wasn't around smoke throughout the day. Take it one day at a time prairiebelle and when the urge strikes get up and move around for few minutes - the urge will pass and I found it wasn't the craving for the cigarette but the habit and that is much easier to get through.
Let us know how you do....I have to do it soon myself! I've been smoking over 25 years and its def taken a toll on me. I have heard great things about the med, but I think it is Chantix. I'll be praying for you!
I quit one time for 3 weeks. I was hoping that it would get easier when I got over the nicotene dependence. However for me, it's strictly the habit that's hard to break. I haven't tried the med yet, because I'm on so many other meds while trying to find something that helps with my medical issues right now. I will be trying it soon. I do believe that it has the best success rate of anything out there.
Thx leftie. I guess it is a routine thing. I am used to getting up in the morning and sitting down at the computer and having a smoke before I do anything else at all. That will be a tough one to get through. I will have to make myself hop in shower instantly instead and take an extra long hot shower to get my day started instead.