Nice guys do finish last (in my case anyways)

[DaveP]

This reminds me of a song ...

Another one

[Lynn49]

Curt.....are you still seeing a counselor? A new one, hopefully?

Hon....you know I've been around the block more than once, and I know it might be very trite of me to say so, but I HAVE been where you are when I was younger. Believe that.
But I had enough strength to keep going, and although it took a few years for me, things did get better! Then they got wonderful! And now I'm here in my...ahem...old(er) age, wishing I could do it all over again, the good, even WITH the bad.

But you can't do it alone, Hon. How is your daughter doing? Do you see her often? My mind's a sieve, I can't remember how old she is...

Take good care of yourself, Curt...and as you can see...there are others on here in the same boat as you...and you do have US!

[dch]

I have no real friends in life, just my cyber SC friends. Dont worry curt, we are all your buds

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[curt81]

Curt.....are you still seeing a counselor? A new one, hopefully?

Hon....you know I've been around the block more than once, and I know it might be very trite of me to say so, but I HAVE been where you are when I was younger. Believe that.
But I had enough strength to keep going, and although it took a few years for me, things did get better! Then they got wonderful! And now I'm here in my...ahem...old(er) age, wishing I could do it all over again, the good, even WITH the bad.

But you can't do it alone, Hon. How is your daughter doing? Do you see her often? My mind's a sieve, I can't remember how old she is...

Take good care of yourself, Curt...and as you can see...there are others on here in the same boat as you...and you do have US!

I haven't seen anyone for a while. Doesn't really help. I see my daughter every other weekend - same as always.

I'm just tired...there's a woman I've always loved and care deeply about (talking numerous years here), but no matter how nice I am, how many times I buy her flowers, etc...just doesn't seem like she cares, but it's too hard to move on....and also been way too long since I had a friend whom I could hang out with, talk on the phone with, etc.. but it's just something I have to accept, as even tho I rather be buried six feet under, suicide is not an option. My daughter needs me.

I know I'll never be happy - don't deserve it, I guess, but I'm just trying to live an okay life for her. Try to make life at least somewhat bearable. Having a job so I can stop worrying would be a nice start. Not getting any calls. It would be nice not to feel like such a failure anymore.

Thank you for your support and to everyone else also. Always appreciated.

[SmartShopper19]

Everyone deserves happiness! You will find it one day

And you can call me if you want someone to talk to,
if not message me whenever you want
you may not know me personally but there are people that care,
there will always be people to care

[sweet sparrow]

Don't lose hope that you'll be happy someday. Things just might not turn out the way you thought they would. They rarely do.

Your daughter was sent to be your little ray of sunshine. I'm sure she'd love to see you smile.

Each new day has promise.

[gameprogirl]

I haven't seen anyone for a while. Doesn't really help. I see my daughter every other weekend - same as always.

I'm just tired...there's a woman I've always loved and care deeply about (talking numerous years here), but no matter how nice I am, how many times I buy her flowers, etc...just doesn't seem like she cares, but it's too hard to move on....and also been way too long since I had a friend whom I could hang out with, talk on the phone with, etc.. but it's just something I have to accept, as even tho I rather be buried six feet under, suicide is not an option. My daughter needs me.

I know I'll never be happy - don't deserve it, I guess, but I'm just trying to live an okay life for her. Try to make life at least somewhat bearable. Having a job so I can stop worrying would be a nice start. Not getting any calls. It would be nice not to feel like such a failure anymore.

Thank you for your support and to everyone else also. Always appreciated.

The reason its so hard to move on is because you keep talking or doing for this lady. If you distance yourself, it will get better eventually. I've been where you are too, its a horrible, hopeless feeling. You keep asking yourself why your not good enough. You are good enough, you need to find yourself again and realize you and your DD deserve a happy life.

You keep torturing yourself by sticking around this lady. Dont do it.
There is a perfect girl for you, she may not arrive tomorrow but she is there somewhere. You wont see her because your still involved with the one that dont notice you.

Trust me, its gonna be bad for awhile, but everyday that goes by, the pain will lessen. You need to get outside and do stuff to keep your mind busy. The less stuff you have to do, the more you will dwell on her.

Anytime you need anything, pm me. You need people to talk to.

[walkonby]

hello again curt. This pic made me wonder..... Do you own a dog? Tell you why, they are the most amazing intuitive creatures! They really have the ability to lift a human being's spirit just by laying near, licking your hand etc. Their eyes tell a story, but unfortunately it is in dog language so you will have to study that first ( lol)
You will end up talking out loud to them all day, even if someone else is present.
Plus, puppies are a " chick magnet " , so just throwing that out there as well.
Just trying to find a possible silver lining for ya bud.




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[Lynn49]

The reason its so hard to move on is because you keep talking or doing for this lady. If you distance yourself, it will get better eventually. I've been where you are too, its a horrible, hopeless feeling. You keep asking yourself why your not good enough. You are good enough, you need to find yourself again and realize you and your DD deserve a happy life.

You keep torturing yourself by sticking around this lady. Dont do it.
There is a perfect girl for you, she may not arrive tomorrow but she is there somewhere. You wont see her because your still involved with the one that dont notice you.

Trust me, its gonna be bad for awhile, but everyday that goes by, the pain will lessen. You need to get outside and do stuff to keep your mind busy. The less stuff you have to do, the more you will dwell on her.

Anytime you need anything, pm me. You need people to talk to.

Wise words, indeed!
Curt...face it. She doesn't love you. Move on.
Buying her flowers?! And why, may I ask, does she deserve them?!

Gameprogirl is so right....rip her off your sleeve. Burn her photos. Let it be a ritual. You know the old song: "Everybody's Somebody's Fool"? Well I"m here to tell you that's NOT true! NO ONE needs to be anyone's fool!! And you know by now I"m saying that to you with respect for you....you DO deserve better and your perfect girl WILL come along!

You just have to get rid of that other dame first!!
Gone!
BOOM!
OUT of your life forever!!!
SHE'S the one who doesn't deserve YOU!!!

YOU remember that, Curt!!!!

[Lynn49]

hello again curt. This pic made me wonder..... Do you own a dog? Tell you why, they are the most amazing intuitive creatures! They really have the ability to lift a human being's spirit just by laying near, licking your hand etc. Their eyes tell a story, but unfortunately it is in dog language so you will have to study that first ( lol)
You will end up talking out loud to them all day, even if someone else is present.
Plus, puppies are a " chick magnet " , so just throwing that out there as well.
Just trying to find a possible silver lining for ya bud.




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Oh, I wish he could have a doggie.....it would be so good for Curt....!
And, Missy...just WHAT is wrong with talking out loud to them all day?!
I must tell Jenny I loves her a hundred times a day! LOL!!
Oh.
And she says she loves me even MORE!

[Darth Penguin]

I'm just tired...there's a woman I've always loved and care deeply about (talking numerous years here), but no matter how nice I am, how many times I buy her flowers, etc...just doesn't seem like she cares, but it's too hard to move on....and also been way too long since I had a friend whom I could hang out with, talk on the phone with, etc.. but it's just something I have to accept, as even tho I rather be buried six feet under, suicide is not an option.

1. the lady isn't intereasted...Curt you can buy her a greenhouse full of flowers....she's not intereasted...and if I was her, I'd be seriously creeped out by any-one constantly trying to buy my affections like this. It's NOT NICE GUY behaviour ...it's boarder line stalking.

The reason its so hard to move on is because you keep talking or doing for this lady. If you distance yourself, it will get better eventually. I've been where you are too, its a horrible, hopeless feeling. You keep asking yourself why your not good enough. You are good enough, you need to find yourself again and realize you and your DD deserve a happy life.

You keep torturing yourself by sticking around this lady. Dont do it.
There is a perfect girl for you, she may not arrive tomorrow but she is there somewhere. You wont see her because your still involved with the one that dont notice you.

2)He's very nearly stalking some-one....she's not at fault for Curt's behaviour..

Yes Curt needs to move on but from what I'm reading the it's not his lady's fault....She's shown she's not intereasted and still Curt is trying to engage...

Curt...face it. She doesn't love you. Move on.

She doesn't..he should but Curt won't. It's his problem.

Buying her flowers?! And why, may I ask, does she deserve them?!

He's buying her flowers to show WATTANICEGUYHEIS even though she's been rebuffing him gently.


Seriously.... The Lady doesn't care..Curt needs to find some-one who does...and blaming the person he's fixated on demeans that woman.She also should be allowed to express her preferances without being judged by an anonymous group of people who are responding to one side of the story.

major snippage in all 3 posts...

[kanewtz]

Watch the Leafs play hockey....then you'll surely realize life isn't so bad.

Sure, they are undeafeted so far this season but just wait...it's all downhill now.

On a serious note, man up and grab life by the balls. Complaining won't get you anywhere.
You don't have friends? Make some!
You don't have a girl? Find one!
You don't have a job? Look for one!

Life is what you make it and you only live it once!!

[curt81]

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