Why Do Some Men Find It Ok To Be Creapy?

[Candini]

Men are certainly strange.

When I was 15 I was coming home from downtown Toronto, took the street car, nothing weird happened.
Upon arrival in Mississauga I had a wait at a bus stop where a man approached me, was making small talk and asked if I wanted to ' smoke a dutchy ' with him. I said no.
He said, come with me around the corner, I`ll give you money.

!!!! Uh hello!!! I`m FIFTEEN! This man had to have been in his late 30's, early 40s. It was middle of winter and I was fully clothed. I called my mom to come get me and she went looking for him lmao

Mind you, I have a DD now and if this happened, I`d find a bat.

[misstarbender]

What does creepy mean anyways? Like if a hot guy smiles at a girl and talks to her, it's not creepy but if an ugly guy does the same thing, it's creepy?

At my last company there was this receptionist and I would often walk past her desk because it was on my way to a meeting I had several times a week. I would usually give her a smile and a hello. I was definitely not attracted to her (she was maybe a 5/10 on a good day) but I smile and say hi to everyone, men or women, old or young, because I'm generally a friendly guy. Later I found out she had been telling people that "this creepy guy keeps walking past my desk to check me out". So after that whenever I walked past her desk I would completely ignore her, and wouldn't even look at her direction. One day as I walk past she goes "how come you never say hi to me anymore?". I ignored her and kept walking. It's hard being polite (especially if you're not that attractive) because girls will think you're trying to hit on them. Sometimes it's better to just not smile or say hi even if it means you'll come off as rude.

maybe she was talking about someone else and was bummed when you stopped saying hello to her

[cabmonk]

But like brad says, no matter if you're just trying to be friendly someone out there thinks you're being creepy or weird. hey its the way I was brought up to say hi and smile and be polite but these days too many girls think that's being weird. I once held a door open for this girl behind me heading into square one in mississauga, she gave me crap for it. I even had a girl say what the hell do you mean by that when I asked her if I could help her at work. The thing about wearing name tags, is so that someone can remember you if they have a compliant or compliment later on. Oh that girl kim was really good to me or that girl kim was really rude to me,etc. I had someone tell the manger at the hotel: that guy you have I think his name is Michael is the best employee you have(true story) Then the manager knew he was talking about me,lol. Not saying there aren't creepy guys for sure along with creepy girls. You know at work I also smile and say hi and good morning to guys that come into the hotel, I hope they don;t think I'm creepy and trying to get into their pants,lol.

[misstarbender]

Men are certainly strange.

When I was 15 I was coming home from downtown Toronto, took the street car, nothing weird happened.
Upon arrival in Mississauga I had a wait at a bus stop where a man approached me, was making small talk and asked if I wanted to ' smoke a dutchy ' with him. I said no.
He said, come with me around the corner, I`ll give you money.

!!!! Uh hello!!! I`m FIFTEEN! This man had to have been in his late 30's, early 40s. It was middle of winter and I was fully clothed. I called my mom to come get me and she went looking for him lmao

Mind you, I have a DD now and if this happened, I`d find a bat.

I feel sorry for the weirdo that trys anything on my daughters. I tend to snap and see red...I would probably be the one to get in trouble...

[Candini]

maybe she was talking about someone else and was bummed when you stopped saying hello to her

I find also as well if your in a rural area as apposed to urban living, people are ALOT nicer in rural areas.

You could say hello to everyone on the street and probably make small conversation as walking downtown Toronto and saying hello to everyone, you`ll probably get awkward stares and called a crazy.