Brother rant!!!!

[cath007]

I just need to get this off my mind before sleeping because I am so but so annoying

Basically I have not a good relationship with my brother because some personals reasons;but to be sure to not forgive this birthday on the upcoming days I wrothe to him a facebook little sentence happy birthday ...we are and never be friend on facebook but we give some news from time to time

After he respond we continue the conversation.I nammed the point I wanted to talk.I have the familly computer that is at least 13 years old.Mister altrought I know it count very much for him....had this hollidays and trips in many country pictures on it.Its been 7 years of that.I said why ...you dont kept them in your memory numeric kodak appareil.And why did you not record on cd yours pictures the time you where home.I have mine iinto a CD an printed some picture about 4 year ago...You can see the difference of taking care of my things that I love and have sentimental value.....But now the big drama is this crap computer is so old it dont take internet I dont know why and the logiciel for copiiing the pictures dont work;the computer need some maintenance for at least working 10% maybe...but I said I dont want to put money and I will get rib of the computer to make me a nice space....I was so furious...It is my fault to not copied the pictures...huh no...I love the pictures but the logiciel and his pictures fichier are too damaged to be copied...He dont understand it is my fault...I was so furious I said to him then I will ship you the computer and it is your trouble...again he was frustrated..so appart nero,what program work to do this...otherwhise it will be a familly argue war..and I have already dealing with that enough


Off to bed and find a solution with my valuable time tommorrow...like always...

[YOU AND ME]

Sorry you have to go though this cath,some people are always looking to blame someone else it's never their fault.

[dariusz8]

how many pictures are we talking about? do you know the size of the folder with the pictures? you can always transfer them to some external drive, usb, sd card etc. its much easier then trying sometimes to burn things onto cd if you don't have the proper software.

I understand family can be difficult to deal with(talking from experience), hope you can figure out something Don't stress over it.

[cath007]

We talking about thousands pictures;I can understand his reaction but why blaming me.He is like that since at least 10 years.I changed for the better my life he is not...it is again my fault

I have enough of dealing with my things I dont want to deal with him....He is my brother yes...but he is a jerk...

[cath007]

I had the same notice for me by my uncle last summer for some things so I think I have the right to notice him that I want to get rib of the old computer... I offer him a solution so will go by that...I will shipp him the computer by a member of familly and it is his trouble not mine

[cath007]

I had a flash this night I copied this pictures for myself in a CD like 8 years ago and it was with my things;will start with that or I will send him the CD and done!!!

[i_forget]

I would not do that for him.

If he wants them so badly, he can figure it out. He has had all of that time to do something about it, and he has not done it, so either he is not really that bothered, or he is a lazy jerk waiting for someone else to cater to his needs.

Why should you go out of your way to cater to him when he is treating you like crap?

[cath007]

You are right.I lost 3 years in my teenage year to take care of HIS problems...at the point to having no life ...I am is sisther...not his mother...and he treated my mom the same way...I am so tired...If I kept and restaured this computer it is FOR me...

He had plenty leaisure time to do it..dont abuse of my kindness anymore...I need to say no even to familly..and everyone I am not interessed to deal with...Since he his no longer real presence in my life I am less depressive and more happy..I dont want to be sad and having every faults and problems on my shoulder.

[Ciel]

Dear cath007-time to sing the ABBA song, SO LONG and let computer go to your brother. I'm sure if you had your stuff in HIS place, he'd be bothering you so much to take it or he'd use it and say too bad, it's mine.

You know your time is valuable-use it for what you want to do. Let frere figure out the logiciel/fichier problems (they will give him something to do. Otherwise if brother is still bothering you after the computer is sent to him, you can always block his number and unfriend him on FB.)

[cath007]

@Ciel: Dont worry he dont have the right to speak to me in person or in telephone;I have the right if I want to do it...because I made a complain for harrassement for another things....Best thing ever

[cath007]

He is the kind of person to steal his own familly...
Maybe 6 months ago He nammed is name(tag) in all my FB pictures and made that is pictures...I was so mad to see a relationship fake because that dont exist anymore for a long time... that I redo the job and blocked my pictures...He still own me a lot of money.It is simple;If he dont change he will lost the remaining little relationship between us forever.

He will have 30 years!!! in 1 week...if he dont change his behavior I am worry he is not in good position for his remaining life...

[i_forget]

He is the kind of person to steal his own familly...
Maybe 6 months ago He nammed is name(tag) in all my FB pictures and made that is pictures...I was so mad to see a relationship fake because that dont exist anymore for a long time... that I redo the job and blocked my pictures...He still own me a lot of money.It is simple;If he dont change he will lost the remaining little relationship between us forever.

He will have 30 years!!! in 1 week...if he dont change his behavior I am worry he is not in good position for his remaining life...

Well, that choice is his....so do not worry about him. Worry about yourself and making yourself happy.
AND do not let people take advantage of you anymore!

[Ciel]

Brother has to get life experience of knowing outcomes of his own actions. They stick to HIM.

[Shwa Girl]

He is the kind of person to steal his own familly...
Maybe 6 months ago He nammed is name(tag) in all my FB pictures and made that is pictures...I was so mad to see a relationship fake because that dont exist anymore for a long time... that I redo the job and blocked my pictures...He still own me a lot of money.It is simple;If he dont change he will lost the remaining little relationship between us forever.

He will have 30 years!!! in 1 week...if he dont change his behavior I am worry he is not in good position for his remaining life...

cath007, now you see why I made that thread, "Sibling for Sale or Trade". You have one. I have one. You probably won't want to trade for mine though.

[cath007]

No hahaha thanks Shwa Girl lol