Originally Posted by
SweetBoo
Oh wow, I am going through this at the moment too..The exact same thing..except my Hubby is a Groomsman. Both my DD and DS were asked to be the Flowergirl and Ring Bearer. I said yes originally to being a Bridesmaid, but pulled the family out about a couple months ago. This would have cost our family a small fortune. I put my foot down. DH will represent the family, everyone else is staying home. I agree..when did weddings and brides get so complicated and so expensive. $100 for a wedding gift on her registry..she's nuts, I have two kids!!! I was sent emails re wedding websites, and How to be a proper Bridesmaid..Flower girl... etc..That was what broke the camels back. Isn't it awful having to read all of that stuff. I personally dreaded every minute of it. I feel so free now!!! :cheesygrin: