and i was dealing with the same issue but the opposite end! why is it soo hard to reply! a friend and i had set up plans to take the kids out i had phoned, left a voice mail, a text, a facebook message, the messages say they have been read (but i don't fully trust that).... and i just need a confirmation that yes indeed your still coming i don't want to show up at your place and you've changed your mind and can't join... it makes it nearly impossible to plan playdates and for me it wouldn't be an issue and i'd just shrug the person off it's the kids that are friends and love to play together and you keep making a effort for the sake of the kids

