we have talked about it and she says she's afraid to fail and be teased... but i do tell her the only real failure is not trying mistakes are ok, they are learning experiences and how can you learn if you don't allow yourself to make mistakes i just watch her usual confidence fall completely and it makes me sad and frustrating that she won't even try
we are a reading household too.. every night they get home reading books that she reads to me and she takes a book to bed every night for 15-20 min before the lights go out (and if she wants to she can stay up later with the flashlight and her book... but come the end of the night she's usually too tired for that)
i know it's just going to take time and we're still getting back into routines but the battles are frustrating because i know she can do it if she just tries

