All Purpose Rant Away Thread - 3.2.1 GO!

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I'm so sorry sweet lady, I' sure this really sucks very badly. THe system seems designed to keep you IN the system, thus I know it may sound hard, but I would do everything you can to get out of the system, even borrowing money. Your persistence will pay off and your hard work will allow you to pay him back.

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Originally Posted by shmeelady

Blew out my back on Wednesday, missed three days of work and am just starting to recover. DS spent a week at his dads and came back with a slight attitude and thinking he can have and do whatever he wants.

Daycare subsidy was cut because I have a job. My worker told me I needed to re apply for subsidy to see if I still qualified (wtf). Asked him how the heck I am supposed to pay $400 for daycare this month when I Haven't even gotten my first paycheque yet, he basically told me to figure it out on my own.

AND because I started working I upped my monthly school payments to $380 a month. Since this daycare payment came completely out of the blue I am unprepared and had to borrow money from my grandad. I NEVER borrow money, it makes me feel useless and I find it demeaning to myself. Everytime I think I have life together I get a kick in the rear.


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but you borrowed money for a very good reason, there's no shame in that! it's not like you're pissing the money away on booze and cigarettes, right? hold your head high and know that you did the right thing, we all need help once in awhile :flowers:

I hate taking the subway on rainy days. There are so many n00bs who only take it when it rains and don't consider basic science that babies have figured out on their own. The noobs push their way into cars before people can get out. Can't shove more sardines into a sardine can until you take some out ifirst

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Originally Posted by shmeelady

Blew out my back on Wednesday, missed three days of work and am just starting to recover. DS spent a week at his dads and came back with a slight attitude and thinking he can have and do whatever he wants.

Daycare subsidy was cut because I have a job. My worker told me I needed to re apply for subsidy to see if I still qualified (wtf). Asked him how the heck I am supposed to pay $400 for daycare this month when I Haven't even gotten my first paycheque yet, he basically told me to figure it out on my own.

AND because I started working I upped my monthly school payments to $380 a month. Since this daycare payment came completely out of the blue I am unprepared and had to borrow money from my grandad. I NEVER borrow money, it makes me feel useless and I find it demeaning to myself. Everytime I think I have life together I get a kick in the rear.


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I hope you qualify for subsidy when you reapply.It is almost impossible to pay daycare on your own , You would be working to pay the daycare, I hope this is just a formality because your income has changed and you will be reimbursed. Good luck .

Nobody else in my department does any work and because of that I get assigned everything and I have been going non-stop since 7:30 this morning to now (noon). I haven't had time to eat my breakfast and now it's lunch, my tea is now iced tea and I haven't been to the washroom since I left my house (maybe a bit TMI there). It's so frustrating!

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Originally Posted by GoJays

but you borrowed money for a very good reason, there's no shame in that! it's not like you're pissing the money away on booze and cigarettes, right? hold your head high and know that you did the right thing, we all need help once in awhile :flowers:

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Thank you. :)
Really hard for me to do, I'm hard headed, stubborn an try to be as independent as possible. Sometimes I don't realize that it's okay to ask for help! Need to get over that.


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Originally Posted by thriftygranny

I hope you qualify for subsidy when you reapply.It is almost impossible to pay daycare on your own , You would be working to pay the daycare, I hope this is just a formality because your income has changed and you will be reimbursed. Good luck .

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It's ridiculous! My worker told me that y subsidy wouldn't be affected once I found work but obviously he was talking crap! I don't know how he would expect me to live, daycare and rent alone would eat up all of my income!!! He didn't even send me the re application forms. I waited two weeks for them to be sent and then called back four times for him to tell me he hadnt sent them. Some government workers are so freaking lazy and don't give a crap about the people they are supposed to be helping.

Luckily though I will get reimbursed what I paid as long as e processes my application before November. Fingers crossed!


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Someone who said to you I dont care and it hurt you,but this people dont care.
I need to do a better wall around me to not be more affected by those toxics things who make me sick.

Trying to find some sort of toy box, or the toy shelves with bins to help with the clutter. Everything I can find is covered with some sort of tv character. Not everyone wants their house to looks like an advertisment for Disney or Nickelodon.

The 'Boss' we never see nor ever met is so incompetent it drives me nuts! Almost always wrong, yet insists on certain things, even when he is wrong, his people find a way to blame 'limitations' in the people skills and abilities of the people doing the work. Some smart people have a special kind of stupid.

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Originally Posted by shmeelady

It's ridiculous! My worker told me that y subsidy wouldn't be affected once I found work but obviously he was talking crap! I don't know how he would expect me to live, daycare and rent alone would eat up all of my income!!! He didn't even send me the re application forms. I waited two weeks for them to be sent and then called back four times for him to tell me he hadnt sent them. Some government workers are so freaking lazy and don't give a crap about the people they are supposed to be helping.

Luckily though I will get reimbursed what I paid as long as e processes my application before November. Fingers crossed!


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Well i am rooting for you, if I didn't watch my granddaughter part time after school her mom would be broke from the day care costs.I have no idea how a single mom is supposed to eat, pay rent and pay daycare and clothe yourselves without a subsidy. Bug this guy daily until you get what is coming to you!!!

A boss you've never seen? Sounds like a villain in a James Bond film lol

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Originally Posted by vesper

The 'Boss' we never see nor ever met is so incompetent it drives me nuts! Almost always wrong, yet insists on certain things, even when he is wrong, his people find a way to blame 'limitations' in the people skills and abilities of the people doing the work. Some smart people have a special kind of stupid.

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Originally Posted by torontogal12

A boss you've never seen? Sounds like a villain in a James Bond film lol

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You're right! I think he is :)

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Originally Posted by Lyssia510

Trying to find some sort of toy box, or the toy shelves with bins to help with the clutter. Everything I can find is covered with some sort of tv character. Not everyone wants their house to looks like an advertisment for Disney or Nickelodon.

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i tend to say walmart toy department threw up in my livingroom

Stupid fancy-smanchy wireless printer doesn't work, brand new out of the box speakers for my computer won't work, dryer has developed a mean squeak and I think I broke my little finger. ARRRGGGG!