Originally Posted by
TaraF
MQ I am so sorry that you have to go through this. There has been a lot of great advice offered here, the only thing I can say is "don't try to be the hero". I know you love your Mom and I'm sure you would go to the ends of the earth for her, but I'm sure she also wouldn't want you to turn your world upside down to take care of her 24/7. Especiallywhen there are other solutions that would probably be better suited for her situation.
Having said that, be her advocate and get her to the Dr's for the tests you feel she needs. And make sure you get POA as soon as you can, before things progress any further.