My father in-law wanted to have a family reunion in our home country this coming December He is requesting all of his kids and family to be there. At the start, ever since we heard his request, we don't promise anyone that we can make it, we use to tell them that it will depends, nor will see.
Airfare alone will cost us at least 4 thousand for 2 adults, 1 kid & 1 baby. I am not working; no income at all, not even EI. We just bought a house last 6 months ago. We moved from Manitoba to Alberta last year which made our funds drought. Considering the facts I mentioned they are still expecting us to make it.
On the 1st week of October, my husband made a final statement and our reasons why we cannot make it. My dad-in-law felt that he is not important to us and couldn't understand what we are going through, such kind of dramas. My y sis-in-law were telling my husband to come home even if it just him, in which my husband disagreed.
On the 2nd week, she told me about the mall whose having a jobfair. The next day she told me about the job openings that she saw online. Then, Sunday last week she told me about the cheap fares. Its annoying to have a notifications from her. I felt that she's pushing me to find a job so that we can make it to my husbands side family reunion.
I am looking for a job, but I am looking for a night jobs, and just weekends , so that I can still take care of the kids. We have two kids and were just trying to avoid the daycare fees or babysitting charges.
My sis-in-law was volunteering to look for my 1 year old while shes in her maternity, but what happens next? She' s going back to work on March.
My husband asked a favor to his sister to stopped those notifications and that we already made our decisions. The latter set up the fire and throwed many issues.