They always say that you will know when you are in labour. I've been having tons of tightening for the last three months, but I'm not in labour. I get extreme cramping in the lower part of my belly (1000000 times worse than menstrual cramps).

I would just go with that - you will know when you are in labour. Has your doctor checked you at all in any of your most recent visits?

Awe I'm sorry to hear about your first, whatever happened must have been hard.. but hey you have two more now I'm having a love-hate relationship with pregnancy, I must be bi-polar on some level, haha. And no, not a single one. Well, I'm in pain and I have a lot of cramps but no instances where my stomach has hardened... I dunno, I don't fully understand how it all works or how it should feel

I know how anxious it can be ... I'm anxious about meeting my little girl My first was born 10 years ago and lives with another family ... that's a whole other story. My second is 17 months old right now and is just a little treat. He is the centre of my universe right now!! I hope your pregnancy has been relatively easy. I would honestly have as many babies as my hubby would let me ... I love being pregnant and I love kids Have you had any contractions or anything by this point?

This is my first, I'm getting so anxious to get him out and meet him. Were your first two twins? I can't imagine doing this 3 times... It's weird though, my husband and I are both the 2cnd child in our families and both of our older siblings were 2 weeks early while we were 2 weeks late. I was so hoping this one would be early. Oh well, it's all worth it in the end right? Well, good luck to you with your third, I'd imagine life is already pretty hectic at this point for you eh? Well, take care

41 weeks, huh? I know how you feel. With my first two, I went 42 weeks, and am expecting to do the same with this one (I'm 35 weeks today). Good luck