The Official and ONLY Place to Discuss Negative Trade Experiences + Trade Blacklist

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Originally Posted by Carla54321

I personally think that all of your posts have hurt your reputation more than anything Angela273 posted.

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You're absolutely right.

I'm removing myself from the thread and like I posted before, will just trade with people I have already traded with or those SC'ers who live in my community.

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Originally Posted by flyingdutch

If it's not a GC I'm not 100% how you would know this either... my only thought is if someone contacted you asking for "copupon" X because they "don't have any", then said they never got your end of the trade, but then posts a brag in the brags section about using "coupon X" in a shopping trip.... that's the only way I think you could know and even then it's just speculation since they could have received "coupon X" from another trader....:shrug:

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ya, thats not adding up for me. But then again, quite a few of the other things that have been said didn't add up either. I can't say I'm surprised.

please dont feel that way - there are many GREAT and WONDERFUL people on here - you just have to find them :)

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Originally Posted by Brynhilde

You're absolutely right.

I'm removing myself from the thread and like I posted before, will just trade with people I have already traded with or those SC'ers who live in my community.

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Originally Posted by Brynhilde

People use the tracker list when they initiate the trade or when they haven't received the trade at all.

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No, it's only used when they initiate the trade, period. If they have not received a trade and they are not able to resolve it with the other user, then they post in here where all this is going on.
You may not have noticed that I specifically replied in that thread asking that it be taken over here, and not posted over there http://forum.smartcanucks.ca/4271880-post537.html

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Originally Posted by Brynhilde

I was offended initially because I traded with many people and no one put me on the list. Those are my feelings to have..

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Again, as I also stated, not everyone uses the list. If you happen to trade with a user who does, then yes, you will be on it; there is absolutely nothing for you to be offended about, and your snarky posts about being on the list in the forum were not necessary.

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Originally Posted by Brynhilde

I understand from the experience with Jeniana why I was put on the list. I also understand that not everyone uses the list.

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This is why it would have been best to ask Jeniana why she put you there in a PM rather than your posts in the thread.

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Originally Posted by Brynhilde

Why Angela wants me on the list NOW is what I have an issue with. That doesn't sound like what the list is to be used for especially when one day has elapsed and she never gave me a chance to send her another envelope. It comes off as a malicious action after the issue was thought to be handled.

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If you check the first page of the thread, I did not put the trade on the list because it's not to track problem trades - negative trade experiences that cannot be worked out between members go here - see why I said I am talking in circles...

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Originally Posted by Brynhilde

That's surprising that you are shocked I haven't got a ban. Do you get a ban because of another user posting about you when we already resolved the issue;)? It wasn't necessary to post about me in any threads when the issue had been resolved. Period. I don't need to cool off.. I'm cool and calm. What I need is for people to stop posting their opinion of something that doesn't involve them. Someone posting that I'm extremely cheeky or that I'm a newbie doesn't help to resolve the problem of me posting too much or the problem in general. In fact, like you said, keeps it going in circles.

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I don't think you've actually gone back & read your own posts with an open mind to see how the 'tone' of your posts are coming across to others. People are responding because of your tone.

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Originally Posted by Brynhilde

I have a lot of fun with the majority of my trades and I hope to continue doing so. Perhaps its best to trade with people whom I've already had positive transactions with, whom I know leave feedback, etc,. I would never publicly humiliate someone because I didn't receive all or any of my trade and would try to resolve it myself. It's too bad that this trade and this thread went this way.

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Don't let one bad experience take away from future trades.

The only thing I can say to you at this point is that perhaps you should go back & re-read your own posts from a different point of view. While you may know what you were trying to say, the message can be read completely different than you intended.

***Dancing to 'Baby Got Back' by Sir-Mix-A-Lot...in the background***

"I like big butts and I cannot lie......"

:lolsign:

It's a good tune. Haha.

This is a place to discuss negative trades or issues. NOT TO FIGHT or take out grievances. I have replied to both parties invlolved.

I did however miss all this as I was in meetings all day.

While noone is banned at this time for a cooling off period I highly suggest that the ones who are getting very heated walk away instead of saying things that can hurt others.

OK, the circle is now complete. Can we please MOVE ON As I stated 2 pages back, no need to air this in public. That is why we have mods. In case anyone is not aware, please contact SALLY888 if you have done a trade, it did not work out, and you tried to work it out by pm with the trader. Sally888 will take it from there.

So, I hope everyone has a fabulous day, now get out there and find some of those Lactancia cream coupons for $1 and pm me to trade :P

Well I would hope people are not bothering Sally a day after a PM has been sent to rectify the situation - but IMO it does make sense for the initial post here, since we all know from the past that 'issues' with that trader can be happening to multiple people at once

On another note, and maybe its been posted previous but there are way too many pages for me to check back, has anyone heard from TennilleS? She hasnt been on since Dec. 13 and I have a train that was send her way on Dec 9 and I have had no updates?

i think she went missing on a train i was on as well :(

She hasn't responded to me. I will contact her again.

Anyone have any trading issues with coocoo_4_coupons?

I was a rider on one of her trains and the envies haven't arrived home and the thread has not been updated. She has logged in so I don't know...

Not having much luck on trains lately.

I have no choice but to give t.sanwald a negative for a large trade that I never received. I messaged her numerous times and there has been no contact. If this trader does send me her end of the trade, I will ask that the negative be removed.

I've asked her several times to leave feedback for a train of mine she was on - as posted in my rules as mandatory. No response and several logins since. :(

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Originally Posted by Jody22002

Anyone have any trading issues with coocoo_4_coupons?

I was a rider on one of her trains and the envies haven't arrived home and the thread has not been updated. She has logged in so I don't know...

Not having much luck on trains lately.

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How long should a user wait before leaving neutral feedback? When is it appropriate to leave neutral feedback?