ok, so this morning i called the principle(DD didn't want me to) & told him what happened. i drove her to school right before the bell & picked her up for lunch. she told me that the principle took her & the 2 girls into his office to talk about it. he said that suspensions would be given if there were any fighting(or threats on MSN). DD said by the end of the day the 1 girl was nice to her again, but she doesn't want anything to do with the other girl. so all in all, it worked out good!! no one was hurt...phew!! i am surprised the school actually did something this time!!