Patty's SKANK-A-PALOOZA Train for Hellions, Humanoids, Skanks & HOBNOOBS!(FULL)

[itsjustmebub]

i say to her i was happy before all of this, i want to feel like that again... and she's like were you really? because nothing you've talked about sounded really happy ...

and it's true. i wasn't.
i was in 2 modes - take care of DH & wail like a crazy lady to de-stress afterwards.

that was it i was just running on auto-pilot to get through every day

quoting myself because everyone ignored me
kidding

actually it was because the next point is i need to start doing things to make myself HAPPY ... and i don't know how in the heck to do that lol.

If it were a friend i could come up with a million things, but to just make MYSELF happy i am at a loss.

What would you all do for Bub?

[Lua]

that's quite the boss you have there vee! i would totally just leave at 3:30!! lol

[Woofy]

Hmm... I just realized that if I delay buying the Lancome Genifique Gift Set till tomorrow...

I'll be scoring 40k SDM points with just that one purchase... versus only 16,250 if I buy today...

I'll just have to wait out, and hope that the gift set is still available tomorrow!

[itsjustmebub]

Hmm... I just realized that if I delay buying the Lancome Genifique Gift Set till tomorrow...

I'll be scoring 40k SDM points with just that one purchase... versus only 16,250 if I buy today...

I'll just have to wait out, and hope that the gift set is still available tomorrow!

[VeeVee]

quoting myself because everyone ignored me
kidding

actually it was because the next point is i need to start doing things to make myself HAPPY ... and i don't know how in the heck to do that lol.

If it were a friend i could come up with a million things, but to just make MYSELF happy i am at a loss.

What would you all do for Bub?

Why not take up Yoga or a something...you used to like spin class!
I would do Yoga with you...but like in Jan or Feb bc Im so gahhh busy now haha

Cooking classes, scrapbooking, go get a pedi or mani once every few weeks

[Woofy]

quoting myself because everyone ignored me
kidding

actually it was because the next point is i need to start doing things to make myself HAPPY ... and i don't know how in the heck to do that lol.

If it were a friend i could come up with a million things, but to just make MYSELF happy i am at a loss.

What would you all do for Bub?

Quoting one of the President of USA... (can't remember who)...

Ask not what your friends can do for you... but ask... what you can do for your friends!

Kidding!

But maybe you can try to do something for the less fortunate... you'll be surprised at the joy and sense of connecting to humanity by a simple act of kindness to the less fortunate...

I used to say this about volunteering... I always thought I am doing good for another person when I help them... but little do I know that the person whom I helped most is myself... It's humbling... and very soul-lifting!

Try it!

[VeeVee]

that's quite the boss you have there vee! i would totally just leave at 3:30!! lol

Mm I am ..bf gets off at 3 today so yay he can pick me up.
But see we had reserved 70 drink tickets...4 per couple...well a few ppl didnt show and since we paid for the drinks in advance he got the extras...which was like 6 or 8 drinks...in the middle of the show he disappeared and when I left i saw him by the bar...some ppl said he was asking who wanted to go to a bar after...

[itsjustmebub]

No Yoga for Bub ... xnay on the yoga-ay

Spin yes I did love that. I just need to get my energy back up so that I can actually do that again. Oh the daydreaming during spin.... lol

Hmm cooking classes sound fun. I love to cook

[Lua]

quoting myself because everyone ignored me
kidding

actually it was because the next point is i need to start doing things to make myself HAPPY ... and i don't know how in the heck to do that lol.

If it were a friend i could come up with a million things, but to just make MYSELF happy i am at a loss.

What would you all do for Bub?

I think finding some sort of hobby to do on your own could help. ? do you have any sort of hobby that you once loved but haven't gotten to do in a long time???

do you play any instruments? maybe take up playing the guitar or something since you love music so much?

[VeeVee]

Your so right Woofy...about the volunteering and them helping you more then you helping them.

[itsjustmebub]

Thanks Woofy, yes I do actually LOVE doing stuff for other people like my friends. It brings me a lot of joy. THe problem comes in when it's just me ... okay I should do something for myself - then I have ZERO ideas.

I already do some religious volunteer work

[VeeVee]

No Yoga for Bub ... xnay on the yoga-ay

Spin yes I did love that. I just need to get my energy back up so that I can actually do that again. Oh the daydreaming during spin.... lol

Hmm cooking classes sound fun. I love to cook

Oh belly dancing classes? I would love to do that!!!

Cooking classes sound super fun!....

[itsjustmebub]

I think finding some sort of hobby to do on your own could help. ? do you have any sort of hobby that you once loved but haven't gotten to do in a long time???

do you play any instruments? maybe take up playing the guitar or something since you love music so much?

but I have a hard time committing to anything in case I don't love it ... that's part of the problem actually.
She suggests I just schedule in a variety of things and force myself to get out there and do them until I find something I really like and it because habitual.

I played piano my whole life, but we sold the piano a few years ago - big mistake now

[Woofy]

Oh, oh... I know, I know...

Bub... you can help, by helping me babysit Ethan!

LMAO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[VeeVee]

Bub its the simplest things that can make you happy...for me now that I am thinking about it...well shopping makes me happy haha but making some cookies also makes me giddy haha I love crafting as well...lets me be creative and lets my mind wander