thanks for the support everyone. while i realize it may seem like all of a sudden at 18 im like.. GAH.. but actually until they hit their teen years they were both extremely helpful and neat kids.. everything always had a place.. then not sure what happened. guess for me it was i'd rather clean it up then listen to them whine etc. bad i know. boy am i learning that now. he's really a good kid when it comes to cleaning. just every once in a while like all of us he needs a kick in the butt ya know.
just showed him the list and chart and he's like 'cool. i can do that. it helps to see what i need to do cause sometimes i forget'.. lol sometimes? LOL.
at least he's honest.
will see how this goes. i'll update in a week :)

