torontogal
I loved your rant! It is what many of us have experienced in various stages of reducing. So the calorie tracking app, that is so coincidental that just on May 3rd I did the exact same thing ( well on my desk top I mean, registered to a free site called Everyday Health.com ) which tracks what you've eaten as you enter it and lets you know what is available to eat for the rest of the day.
I am not sure I agree with some of the values they state for certain foods, ( eg: 1 cup cucumber 8 calories, 1 cup cucumber peeled 10 calories ! how does peeling it make it a higher value? ) BUT I do love that each food is broken down into everything it contains. So not just calories, but sugar, fat, carb, fibre, cholesterol, sodium and proteins.
Once you decide what calorie amount you want for your plan ( I chose 1100 per day ) it then lets you know how much of each of the other things that 1100 calories should consist of, so certain %'s of fats.proteins, carbs, fibre etc and if you choose bad food low in calorie you are going to go over the nutritional calculations laid out.
I hope I am making sense to you. You are doing plenty of things right! Congrats on that ( the water, exercise, the veggie choice over fruit! SAME as me, the elimination of junky or restaurant type meals. ) so something else may be causing your stall in weight loss. If you want to check out the site where I track mine, have a look and see if it might be a better fit for what you want to do as you lose.
here is the link
http://www.everydayhealth.com/member...s%2fjournal#/1