I've been there. LOL This one I don't like his family so once we'll be done done... it'll be the child and that's it. We have our own rooms so there's no misunderstandings

Complications us? As long as he understands boundaries, it can work.

& I`m hardly one to talk - I spend holidays with my I-don`t-want-to-marry-you`s family.

Yikes is right! What I left out (because I don't want people flooding me with PMs with useless advice) is that we're separated under the same roof. Yup - we still live together until I can return to work from mat leave. I'm not allowed to return early and we have a lease until July. LOL Complicated much?