I keep thinking about it because she keeps mentioning it. She keeps asking my opinion each time she sees this guy. I know she just needs advice and confused of it all. I just dont want her to be hurt but also not to miss out on something that could be.

Stripes is back to normal a little goopies in his eyes and been cleaning then. Patches is doing a lot better. She is playing now, drinking a lkittle more, and using the litter box today compared to in the cage, or in the margarine dish with litter in it.