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[leopakes]

One of my tradee issues has been resolved - in a positive way - I had a feeling this tradee was super nice and this was only a mistake.

Thats great!

to both you and your "tradee"

[Sunraven]

You NEED to leave negative feedback, I giving them 2 weeks and then giving it if not received.

Jenn, so you mailed your part out already?!

[NikyK]

Happy for everyone whose issues were solved, but unfortunately, I see more and more negative experience, comments. The number of scammers are growing... I think we soon will have to start a new sticky thread : STOP SCAMMING! Not funny unfortunately.... I also got another ''great'' experience, traded with a new trader (new to trades, but not new to a forum!). I think all of you know her. Send my part of the trade, even though she had 1 positive feedback, didn't get anything from her, she won't return my PM, plus she hasn't even log in since Nov.8, plus she already got the first negative feedback... So, what ...wait longer, already almost a month, leave a negative rating without speaking to her?

[jaba]

So, what ...wait longer, already almost a month, leave a negative rating without speaking to her?

If she comes back online and she has a valid reason for not sending her end (you never know ) then you can always edit/delete a neg trade rating, but personally I'd give a neg trade rating after a month, again just to warn people

[jenlively49]

happy for everyone whose issues were solved, but unfortunately, i see more and more negative experience, comments. The number of scammers are growing... I think we soon will have to start a new sticky thread : Stop scamming! Not funny unfortunately.... I also got another ''great'' experience, Traded with a new trader (new to trades, but not new to a forum!). I think all of you know her. Send my part of the trade, even though she had 1 positive feedback, didn't get anything from her, she won't return my pm, plus she hasn't even log in since nov.8, plus she already got the first negative feedback... So, what ...wait longer, already almost a month, leave a negative rating without speaking to her?

yup

[jenlively49]

Jenn, so you mailed your part out already?!

NO!! Are you crazy, I was burnt already by someone on here with someone with a 9 postive feedback, fool me once shame on you, fool me twice shame on me . It was for stamps, so luckily I don't have to hold on to coupons in case my end does show up, but I highly doubt it. I advised them before we completed trade I would be waiting for their end to arrive first. Even thou I haven't sent my half, that is a trade agreement in my eyes, and I will be leaving negative feedback when not recieved.

[NancyM]

One of my tradee issues has been resolved - in a positive way - I had a feeling this tradee was super nice and this was only a mistake.

yeah

[saraL]

i just wanted to put my two cents in about the "m" girl everyone is talking about.

listen, she's young and she's a bit panicked about everyone turning on her. i did a trade with her and then had thought something had gone really wrong. today i got my trade just like she promised. yes, it did take a long time but she did not scam me. i honestly don't believe she's scamming anyone. as frustrated as i was at the time, i have calmed myself down since.

i do think she's young and got in over her head a bit. but i've talked to her about that and given her some advice on how to stay organized with trades and how to deal with people older than her so that everyone understands what is going on/the things she says. she seemed responsive to it, at least.
remember how much drama and angst seemed to cling to us when we were teenagers? [or was that just me and my friends? LOL]

i don't know if my voice/opinion in this matter will change anyone's mind but maybe a calm voice will help ease some minds. yes, all of the trades have been slow but give it some time and it may come yet.
and like someone else suggested, there is a reason we have the ability to give a "neutral".

[ccmp1974]

i just wanted to put my two cents in about the "m" girl everyone is talking about.

listen, she's young and she's a bit panicked about everyone turning on her. i did a trade with her and then had thought something had gone really wrong. today i got my trade just like she promised. yes, it did take a long time but she did not scam me. i honestly don't believe she's scamming anyone. as frustrated as i was at the time, i have calmed myself down since.

i do think she's young and got in over her head a bit. but i've talked to her about that and given her some advice on how to stay organized with trades and how to deal with people older than her so that everyone understands what is going on/the things she says. she seemed responsive to it, at least.
remember how much drama and angst seemed to cling to us when we were teenagers? [or was that just me and my friends? LOL]

i don't know if my voice/opinion in this matter will change anyone's mind but maybe a calm voice will help ease some minds. yes, all of the trades have been slow but give it some time and it may come yet.
and like someone else suggested, there is a reason we have the ability to give a "neutral".

I agree with this.I think that she was misunderstood by myself and others.She is a teenage and I don't think she means to offend anyone.

[BuggaBugga]

I'm sure someone will bite my head off for this but......

Is being young a good excuse to be rude? My two and half year old has better manners. Certainly by the time one has reached grade 10 they have learned basic hello, please, thank you etc. The demands?

There are other teens on the board who can conduct themselves in an appropriate fashion here, so why not her?

Then there's the outright fabrications. What grade 10 student has a "hubby" and a full time job? Nothing adds up. If she has something to say for herself she needs to come clean and stop taking advantage of the good people of SC.

[ilovecoupons]

I'm sure someone will bite my head off for this but......

Is being young a good excuse to be rude? My two and half year old has better manners. Certainly by the time one has reached grade 10 they have learned basic hello, please, thank you etc. The demands?

There are other teens on the board who can conduct themselves in an appropriate fashion here, so why not her?

Then there's the outright fabrications. What grade 10 student has a "hubby" and a full time job? Nothing adds up. If she has something to say for herself she needs to come clean and stop taking advantage of the good people of SC.

[jaba]

^^^^ +2 ^^^^

[Chuck71]

I'm sure someone will bite my head off for this but......

Is being young a good excuse to be rude? My two and half year old has better manners. Certainly by the time one has reached grade 10 they have learned basic hello, please, thank you etc. The demands?

There are other teens on the board who can conduct themselves in an appropriate fashion here, so why not her?

Then there's the outright fabrications. What grade 10 student has a "hubby" and a full time job? Nothing adds up. If she has something to say for herself she needs to come clean and stop taking advantage of the good people of SC.

I agree, there is no reason to believe that she even is a teenager when she has told people she is married. How can you trust people when you time and time again see lies and deceit. There is no way I will ever trust this person again and don't think anyone else should either

[freebiehunter]

I'm sure someone will bite my head off for this but......

Is being young a good excuse to be rude? My two and half year old has better manners. Certainly by the time one has reached grade 10 they have learned basic hello, please, thank you etc. The demands?

There are other teens on the board who can conduct themselves in an appropriate fashion here, so why not her?

Then there's the outright fabrications. What grade 10 student has a "hubby" and a full time job? Nothing adds up. If she has something to say for herself she needs to come clean and stop taking advantage of the good people of SC.

[moony25]

I'm sure someone will bite my head off for this but......

Is being young a good excuse to be rude? My two and half year old has better manners. Certainly by the time one has reached grade 10 they have learned basic hello, please, thank you etc. The demands?

There are other teens on the board who can conduct themselves in an appropriate fashion here, so why not her?

Then there's the outright fabrications. What grade 10 student has a "hubby" and a full time job? Nothing adds up. If she has something to say for herself she needs to come clean and stop taking advantage of the good people of SC.

hubby is what i call my dad i dont even know what that means and i work as a paper carrier and at my uncles store