Am i doing bad ???

[irsakhan]

i just started coupoing few months ago was so nerviouse about it but have to do it to save money . now after few months thanks to all of you what ever i learn i am trying to tell others to do anyways some would laugh some would say i am cheep in the begining bcz of some bad experience at stores i gave up but evenever i log in to this site and read other successfull brag and see pics i started again .my parents move to brampton i went to visit them .i meet one of their neighbour who are going throught hard time father lost job tried so many other job never got any everyday some pronblem one youger son got frustrated bcz of satuation and looking for job no job then one of his friend tole him let me introduce you to one of my friend he work from home let see if he can help any ways he went with him and slowly slowly he would come lat and go early morning saying he is working goingto school and stuff . one day he got call from his friend s friend who said if u can do delivery for me he said yes he told his father ok i am going to work will be back just will do delivery with friend will be back .after 40 mints got call from police taht he got caught with drugs . imagin what gone through those parents . any ways bail stuff is done and he id on trail . he came home crying and said i wantto help my father i didnot knew that it has that stuff he said go and tell the guy we will do delivry what ever he needs and give him this pakcage poor guy at age of 17 got charded with drugs an dstuff just bcz he need jopb could not find and wrong people took advantage of him . any way since they going through so much i try to help them for religiouse purpose they cant eat curtain food whihc i understand and everyone should so i told them about coupons that they can save alot atleast some wher they can save . they dont knwo so i try to help them when ever i do grocery an ds$ee stuff and i have coupons i would buy extra and give them .now here is the thing i went to store and stuff i had extra coupons so bought detergent 2 extra bouttles and some other stuff and i took that lady with me so she can see and learn but what a bad experinece theer were some people and they start yelling while we were in line and even cashier was like what is this you guys come and buy stuff like this is the end of world you are missusing coupons its abuse and blaw blaw i trryto explain that its not just for me i help my mom my inlaws my sister and also this lady but no so she throwing stuff i cant do this u cant buy this an dthat i sai dfleyer doesnt say limite she said so they cant write everything for you . now i am so upset and thinking am i doing somthing really wrong i was trying to help and it not just for me if i see Tearpad i always take extra depends how many are there if there r just 5 10 left i woudl take 1 or 2 but if there r alot i would take extra and help my family an dthat lady too . That lady later start crying in car that bcz of her i have to listen to all that and stuff and she was shivering saying i cant do this i cant handle i dont knwo even english etc .we were not stealing we were trying to save as everyone do. but one good thing there was one young girl she said she do couponing for long time so she said give me address i will send you coupons and stuff she said she dont have alot since she donated but next time she willsend itto me an dthem will give itto her .so sweet of her but i am so stress where was i wrong .

[barato]

People are different and some they think that are better than others. Keep couponig and helping others

[shirl57]

Yes I agree, keep on couponing. Sometimes there are mean and nasty people out there, but try not to let others get you upset or sad. If you keep reading in this place, you will learn good ideas and hints and tips. At the store, sometimes you will find rude people. Try to ignore them and do what you know is right in your heart. We are all behind you to support you on here. Do not be worried about your spelling on here, I was able to understand your story.

Take care and try to keep up a good spirit inside of you.

[MillieH]

I had someone yelling on Friday, I understand why you feel very upset. Are you able to shop at Walmart, Giant tiger and Shoppers Drug Mart as well as some of the grocery store chains like Food basics or Sobeys, Freshco or something like that. Sometimes if you shop at certain places, they don't really understand how coupons work. Is there a misunderstanding due to different languages? If so it might help to get someone at your church who can take you to a different place to shop or help with communicating if necessary.. I don't think you should give up but if you have too many problems and don't know why, it may just be a misunderstanding somewhere. If you can find some people in your area that coupon too, that can help. To find your area look at the local tab and then pick the province you are in and the city. Sometimes coupon people get together and share ideas on how to use the coupons to get the best value for your money. Some of us got together tonight and did that. We shared coupons and ideas and had fun.

It is hard sometimes to coupon, people can be mean but your heart is good, try not to let them wear you down.

I reread your post again and I think I read it incorrectly the first time. You should be able to buy several unless the stores policy has limits. You could ask to talk to the manager to find out if there are limits. I can understand why your friend was shaking especially if her English isnt great because I'm English and there have been times I have been shaking. Its not easy to coupon but worth it in savings if we have the courage and strength to do it. My heart feels sad for yours because you really want to help and it seems that people are giving you a hard time for no reason. I'm sorry

[shirl57]

MillieH, you broke it down step by step and describe it really well.

[MillieH]

MillieH, you broke it down step by step and describe it really well.

awww shucks

[coupon girl]

hang in there -keep trying different stores -should be no limit unless stated on flyer -unless of course some stores have the right to setr their own limits as per family-dont give up -keep trying-so nice of you to help other families that need your help

[irsakhan]

thanks alot i know my speeling was wrong was typing to fast sorry for that and ya somtime i give up but as i said people like you always help me get up and start doing it agian . thank to all of you so so much