Pregnant?

[Bargain Seeker]

Get some rest and try not to think too much about it. As you know we worry most of the time for nothing. Hope everything turns well for you.

[wimbly11]

Well, not pregnant. And everything else came back fine in my bloodwork so he thinks maybe I just have some kind of virus. He said if it doesn't go away in a few weeks to come back.

How insane is it that I actually felt a twinge of sadness when he said not pregnant? This would be the worst possible timing and my family would probably never speak to me again. I guess my life plan has changed so much, I figured by this point in my life I would be married, happy, and pregnant. I wanted to have my first baby before 30. Well i'm 29 now and divorced. I guess life doesn't quite turn out the way we thought it would. Oh well, things happen for a reason. Thanks for the SC support

[krysta lynne]

my sister took one when she was 15 and i remember she got so sick from it we nearly took her to the hospital. she felt like crap for a good week afterwards

[krysta lynne]

i always get that twinge when i take a test and it says neg. i think its because underneath way way deep down i want one more. but im already at capacity in terms of the things i can do in a day between housework two kids and full courseload of university. still.... sigh

[glowworm2k]

Ah wimbly, life is almost always not what you expect - at least for me. I'm also 29 and divorced but now together with a great guy after taking the time to lick my wounds and get through the mess that was my life post-separation. I got married and divorced very young (18 at marriage, 22 at separation and 26 when the actual final divorce papers went through). Things work out in strange and unexpected ways; you never know what the next few years will bring! *hugs*

[wimbly11]

Thanks Glowworm!

[Candini]

I dont believe pregnancy would have kicked in full effect in a week. The symptoms of the morning after pill are pretty hefty (have taken it before myself) and even I didnt feel 100% for a while after taking it.

Now on my 1st child, she is 18 months, but when I found out I was pregnant I didn`t feel symptoms until I was about 2 months pregnant, morning sickness, vomiting, dizziness. I would wait it out personally, and take a blood test in 3 weeks.

[lavenderplum]

Well, not pregnant. And everything else came back fine in my bloodwork so he thinks maybe I just have some kind of virus. He said if it doesn't go away in a few weeks to come back.

How insane is it that I actually felt a twinge of sadness when he said not pregnant? This would be the worst possible timing and my family would probably never speak to me again. I guess my life plan has changed so much, I figured by this point in my life I would be married, happy, and pregnant. I wanted to have my first baby before 30. Well i'm 29 now and divorced. I guess life doesn't quite turn out the way we thought it would. Oh well, things happen for a reason. Thanks for the SC support

Things do happen for a reason, good or bad...we are never given anything we can't handle

[wimbly11]

I'm having such a rough go lately and I can't seem to pull myself up at all. BF is insanely worried about me. The past 8 months have been rough. I finally got the courage to leave my marriage, to my entire families objections. They told me I was insane, that I was ruining my life. MY mother didn't seem to care that I was miserable, she seemed more concerned with what everyone would think. She actually "disowned" me several times throughout this process. So our relationship has been strained ever since.

I feel guilty for leaving my ex. I have major guilt issues. When I think of him alone in the house I feel responsible and I don't know how to let go of that guilt. I still care about him as a friends, I just wasn't in love with him anymore, so it makes it really difficult.

And then a few weeks back i lost my job. So on top of everything I have no income and am slowly starting to loose my mind each day. I've really plummeted to the bottom and am having a hard time finding my way out of this.

I had a good cry last night with BF talking about all of this. He tells me I need to learn to let go of some of this guilt and to accept the fact that my ex failed me and that I deserve to be happy. I just feel a little lost in life right now. I have no idea what I want. Ugh. Well that's my rant for today....off to stare at my walls for another day...

[Insane]

I was going to add that the morning after pill is more effective the earier you take it. I think it's higher than 89% if taken within 24hrs.

I totally get that twinge when it comes up negative. You start making plans for worse case scenario and are a little sad when you realize it isn't happening. But it will one day.

[itsjustmebub]

I'm having such a rough go lately and I can't seem to pull myself up at all. BF is insanely worried about me. The past 8 months have been rough. I finally got the courage to leave my marriage, to my entire families objections. They told me I was insane, that I was ruining my life. MY mother didn't seem to care that I was miserable, she seemed more concerned with what everyone would think. She actually "disowned" me several times throughout this process. So our relationship has been strained ever since.

I feel guilty for leaving my ex. I have major guilt issues. When I think of him alone in the house I feel responsible and I don't know how to let go of that guilt. I still care about him as a friends, I just wasn't in love with him anymore, so it makes it really difficult.

And then a few weeks back i lost my job. So on top of everything I have no income and am slowly starting to loose my mind each day. I've really plummeted to the bottom and am having a hard time finding my way out of this.

I had a good cry last night with BF talking about all of this. He tells me I need to learn to let go of some of this guilt and to accept the fact that my ex failed me and that I deserve to be happy. I just feel a little lost in life right now. I have no idea what I want. Ugh. Well that's my rant for today....off to stare at my walls for another day...

although our situations were very different (my ex left me) i can say that it took both him and i a very long time to feel normal again. it is a huge emotional rollercoaster up and down and every which way especially if you have been together a long time and most definitely if you dont have your family support.
hang in there your life will level itself at some point