Some People

[YOU AND ME]

Well log in this morning and not 10 minutes goes by and a newbie pm about surveys ,Do i do them,i said i said about 4 sites that i do Legerweb site i said no i don't well could i join under her referral i said not at this time.She starts in i'm a bad person and hopeful i don't need help in the future as i'm not worthy.She has no post must of just joined.i told her i was kind to you some others might not be.So to all you Canucks out there i not worthy so it seems

[peebee74]

Well log in this morning and not 10 minutes goes by and a newbie pm about surveys ,Do i do them,i said i said about 4 sites that i do Legerweb site i said no i don't well could i join under her referral i said not at this time.She starts in i'm a bad person and hopeful i don't need help in the future as i'm not worthy.She has no post must of just joined.i told her i was kind to you some others might not be.So to all you Canucks out there i not worthy so it seems

I got a message too. I just answered that I am already on Legerweb and haven't heard anything back after that but I was annoyed because it doesn't seem fair and a little sneaky to use this approach when there are so many other members on here that post regularly and are so helpful to everyone with out expecting anything in return. I joined every site I'm on through an SCer who seemed to be genuinely nice and helpful through their many posts and will continue to join any new sites the same way. I don't know if what this newbie is doing is allowed??? but in my opinion it shouldn't be

[Darth Penguin]

Did you report the pm to one of the mods??

[anisa]

PM'ing out of the blue looking for trades, and now looking for referrals, is just tacky.

you are totally allowed to report the person.

[sharkie]

it happened to me to....at first I thought she was just a newbie trying to be nice..lol

[peebee74]

it happened to me to....at first I thought she was just a newbie trying to be nice..lol

yeah so did I. I thought maybe she was looking for advice or help.

[peachies]

I got one too..i told that i wasn't interested at this time and i never did hear back from her. I found it a little strange and was wondering if anyone else got the same message. Weird...

[coupon girl]

i got the message too-thought she needed to ask a question -told her nope and never heard back

[Tabby40]

I got a pm for her a couple of days ago, I check her out and she only had 5 visitors so I message on and asked her if she got a message from this user and she yes.

[hollyquaiscer]

I've had this type of thing happen in the past, we are not suppose to solicite from other members. It's different if you're a contributing member and such but just joining and then asking, just plain tacky!

I would have reported them.

[RebeccaRYoung]

I don't really get this at all.

[DaveP]

Same noob pm'd me. Wow, she/he really got around.

[peebee74]

Did you report the pm to one of the mods??

I wasn't sure if it was actually against the rules. Just thought it was wrong. She wasn't abusive to me though like she was to YOU AND ME

[jonesy]

I got this message as well. I ignored it.

[Jezebel]

she has been banned