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Thu, Jul 17th, 2014, 12:22 PM #31
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Thu, Jul 17th, 2014, 12:38 PM #32
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Thu, Jul 17th, 2014, 12:43 PM #33
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Thu, Jul 17th, 2014, 12:56 PM #34
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I think I left you a rep comment wondering if the father was an o.k. guy, I mean when he said he'd talk to the wife he sounded ticked that she had done this. I just hope there is no domestic violence situation at play there. I worry about all the angles here. So the Mom left the kid again? That is quite nervy, it is certainly time to speak directly to HER now. Oh I hope this all works out for you. Keep us all posted, so curious as to why a parent would behave this way?
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Thu, Jul 17th, 2014, 01:01 PM #35
Maybe he did ask and the kids said they played with friends, or did nothing. Not every kid will give will give there parents a run down of their day. The kids aren't really old enough to question what the mother is telling them, so if she's saying go to this house while I go out, they wouldn't question if it was previously arranged or not. I got the impression that the mom doesn't work and is just taking off because she can't be bothered to take care of her kids, but I could be wrong.
OP I hope you call the father or if you have no way of getting ahold of him, childrens aid. As hard as it is to be the one responsible for the kids possibly getting removed from their parents, they need to be supervised, fed and have their safety ensured and the mother either can't be bothered or has something wrong with her(mental illness maybe?) that she cannot take care of her kids.
My heart goes out to these kids and I hope the family gets the help they need and the kids get the security they deserve.
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Thu, Jul 17th, 2014, 01:27 PM #36
I don't have kids, but I am going by how my 7 year old niece acts. She always tells me how her days are and what she did and who she did it with. Doesn't the father ask his wife "so what did you and the kids do today?". Maybe he's married to a pathological liar, who knows? Maybe the mother makes the kids lie about what they do each day? If the mother is not gone to work, where is she going and why can't she take her kids with her ? This may unravel into one horribly sad story. I think a talk with the mother and father together is in order.
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Thu, Jul 17th, 2014, 02:18 PM #37
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45 mins after I posted I left for school. I packed all the kids in the car and drove over and sent my son in the house and her 14 year old sister had returned home.
We are having lunch right now and then I am going over to talk to her.
I am actually in school for a field related to CPS and I will be telling her flat out that I do not appreciate the position I am being put in. Hopefully that will smarten her up because there better not be a next time.
I will update about how the conversation goes.Love like crazy everyday and smile.
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Thu, Jul 17th, 2014, 02:39 PM #38
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And I am already back lol!
Went there, told her about the hungry thing yesterday, and how she was over saying they were not home again today.
Said I did not mind her daughter coming over and asked that she text me before she comes over to make sure that I am available because I am going to school and am busy.
She got defensive, said that she would not leave a 7 year old alone and I said that I know that her other daughter was home today, and I just would like her to text me first because it puts me in an awkward position and she slammed the door in my face and I heard her say "well you are not going over there anymore".
So, lets see how things go now.Last edited by i_forget; Thu, Jul 17th, 2014 at 02:40 PM.
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Thu, Jul 17th, 2014, 02:45 PM #39
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Thu, Jul 17th, 2014, 02:51 PM #40
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Thu, Jul 17th, 2014, 03:37 PM #41
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i never said it was the same situation.. my heart goes out for the kids (aka the mine as well comment) and that i often see parents too lost in their own personal life (their phone, or parents saying "well i gotta go meet..." and being super short saying "i don't care if you want to go to the park we have to go now", "just stand there and shush can't you see i'm talking to...", "i really don't want to sit at the park today" ) putting their wants and needs before the children's wants and needs
i do get that many parents have lives and have to get home get dinner on or go to work.. but that is not always the caseWhen life hands you Edward Cullen...throw him back and demand Eric Northman....
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Thu, Jul 17th, 2014, 03:37 PM #42
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This really needs reported. She's either going to depend on some other neighbour or is going to be alone fending for herself. It sounds like the father already acknowledged it's an ongoing issue so this poor child is running out of help.
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Thu, Jul 17th, 2014, 03:45 PM #43
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this part makes me sad... it's the child that has been stuck in the middle of parental battles.. the mother has respect you and your home and personal space by atleast contacting you before sending her kid over and it's not like your saying "don't ever send your kid over to play" just "hey give me a bit of warning first to make sure i don't have plans for the day already" and now the child loses out
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Thu, Jul 17th, 2014, 03:58 PM #44
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Thu, Jul 17th, 2014, 04:14 PM #45
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