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Tue, Nov 18th, 2008, 09:18 AM #17206
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This week's code word is TWILIGHTTRIVIA for 450 points! Redeem your points now. Good thru 11/21/08
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This week's code word is HEARTBEAT for 350 points! Redeem your points now. Good thru 11/24/08Last edited by leftie; Tue, Nov 18th, 2008 at 09:19 AM.
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Tue, Nov 18th, 2008, 09:18 AM #17207
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thank you for the words lovelies
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I've been away for quite some time so I apologize if I repost a contest by accident! Feel free to message me and let me know if I've done this and I'll delete it : )
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Tue, Nov 18th, 2008, 09:28 AM #17208
thank you for the new words.......
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Tue, Nov 18th, 2008, 09:29 AM #17209
thanks for the new words
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Tue, Nov 18th, 2008, 09:48 AM #17210
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Tue, Nov 18th, 2008, 09:52 AM #17211
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thank you all for the new words!
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Tue, Nov 18th, 2008, 09:59 AM #17212
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[quote=NSangel;556989]i shoulda found a man on the internet..and kept him there. these one's in rl are a pain in the
OH NS you are just too funny! I too 'found' hubby while
on the internet. They say when you're not looking is when
you do meet someone... so true. Almost 10 years now and
still thank my lucky stars to have been so fortunate.'Life is not the way it's supposed to be. It's the way it is. The way you cope with it is what makes the difference.'
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Tue, Nov 18th, 2008, 10:16 AM #17213
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This week's code word is COMFORTFOOD for 450 points! Redeem your points now. Good thru 11/21/08
sheknows food and cooking
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Tue, Nov 18th, 2008, 10:19 AM #17214
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thanks for the words, hope your hubby isn't hurting to bad NS.
Report card day here today!
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Tue, Nov 18th, 2008, 10:28 AM #17215
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Aphena...we are friends so why the apology? I'm lost too everyone
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Tue, Nov 18th, 2008, 10:31 AM #17216
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ok, nobody's bad day will beat this one.
Yesterday DH (dick head) just totally pissed me off when I told him he'd have to take money out of his RRSP's to pay his portion of the bills. I'm not making enough money now to cover all the expenses which I would normally do in this situation. Here's some background - he was let go by his work in early September and supposed to be receiving WSIB immediately. That didn't happen so I applied for EI then had to drag him to the MP & MPP's office so we wouldn't have to wait 4-6 weeks for the first cheque. I've been the one making sure everything gets done, info is sent to WSIB, EI reports are done, kids are fed, winter clothes are purchased etc, etc, etc. He sleeps till noon then spends the rest of his time in the garage ignoring us. Yes he's depressed and in denial but he refuses to acknowledge it or get help. Yesterday I had enough.
I told (yelled) that if he wasn't going to get the money he could get the hell out because I'm tired of doing everything. (2 weeks ago he had the nerve to say he felt unappreciated). I lied and told him I know people who would move in and rent a room here. There was more said but I won't get into it. He came to me an hour later and told me that I wasn't allowed to use HIS van since he makes the payments on it. Well, 2 can play THAT immature game. I gave him a note (he wouldn't talk to me) saying if he wants clean clothes, go to the laundrymat 'cause he isn't using MY washer & dryer. Want your EI reports done? Go to the library 'cause you're not using MY computer. Want to eat? Go to the grocery store and get your own food 'cause i'm going to have a hard enough time getting food for myself and the kids. The list went on but I basically told him that he can either be reasonable about this or not but if he's going to play this game, it's only going to get worse for him.
10 minutes later he comes upstairs, tells our son that he loves him and that he's leaving. I was on the 3rd floor so when i came back to the main floor Alex was bawling. he wouldn't tell me what Jim said so I went outside to confront him. Well, I was told that I kicked him out of the house and he has nothing to live for so he was going to kill himself (overdose on pain meds) and it would all be on my head. I WAS FUMING!!! Coward!!! So I told him again that I didn't kick him out, he is making his choice to leave. And as for the suicide I'm not to blame for any of it, he's making that choice. So he left.
Alex was crying (he's 11), wouldn't talk to me and to see him in that kind of pain made me cry but I was so angry at Jim for being so selfish and not thinking about the pain he's causing everyone else in his life. I ended up calling he police so they could try and locate the van. he has no friends, no hangouts etc so I really didn't know where he'd be.
At 10:30pm he snuck into the house. I didn't talk to him, just went to the main floor to call the police. 3 cars and 6 cops came to make sure he wasn't going to hurt us and wasn't going to harm himself. I was hoping they'd take him to the psych ward for an assessment but they ended up coming back up from the basement and told me that Jim & I had some talking to do. Then they left. I wasn't impressed.
I went downstairs and slept with Alex and haven't talked to Jim since. I'm afraid that as soon as I open my mouth I'm going to blow up again. This is going to sound horrible but I really don't care if he does it or not. I just can't stand to see what this will do to the kids and how they'll feel for the rest of their lives. They are only 11, 10 and 6.
I realize this is extremely personal so if anyone is offended by this please pm me and I will delete it.
I just had to get this out and I know some of you can relate to it.
JodyLast edited by jodew71; Tue, Nov 18th, 2008 at 10:37 AM. Reason: editing to clarify things
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Tue, Nov 18th, 2008, 10:32 AM #17217
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Tue, Nov 18th, 2008, 10:39 AM #17218
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k, 11 yr DS is having a mental health day from school today and he wants to go buy some Webkinz toys for his brother & sister for Christmas so we're heading out for a bit. The school has a counsellor but Alex bottles things in (like his dad) and is saying he doesn't want to talk to her. grrrrr!!!
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Tue, Nov 18th, 2008, 10:42 AM #17219
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jode. we need you to try to check in with us every hour so we know you and kids are ok.
i know exactly what you are going thru. and i know you'll be okay because your strong and don't take no shyat. but plz keep in contact, we worry. u know us.
the kids will talk when they are ready. don't push, i know it's frustrating, both me and DH are upset with DS cause he doesnt talk.
just keep reassuring them that they are loved and things will be ok.
they will be you'll make sure of it :DLast edited by NSangel; Tue, Nov 18th, 2008 at 10:44 AM.
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Tue, Nov 18th, 2008, 11:06 AM #17220
Hugs Jode!
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