Points And Prizes - Sheknows

[martenswd]

Thanks for all the words!!!

[newsnakeowner1978]

LMFAO. You really want one of my dildo's dont' you? OOOOPS. Personal pleasure device...

Women here call them "BOB" = Battery operated boyfriend. lmao

[Jettred]

Jode thoughts are with you--think NS idea is really good to check in so often just to let us know that you are ok. Stay strong.

[Love2save]

It was on TV here, but they pulled it and so i only got to watch part of it, loved what I seen and was diappointed. Still have not found it here on DVD,told my mom to buy me that but she hasnt found it either. Do you know where your daughter got it?

my daughter is coming down today so I will ask her

[haunish]

my daughter is coming down today so I will ask her

Ooh thanks a bunch, I have been dying to see how it went!!

[Love2save]

k, 11 yr DS is having a mental health day from school today and he wants to go buy some Webkinz toys for his brother & sister for Christmas so we're heading out for a bit. The school has a counsellor but Alex bottles things in (like his dad) and is saying he doesn't want to talk to her. grrrrr!!!

it will be good for the two of you to spend the day together, that way you can have some 1:1 time

[leftie]

Jode - stay strong, love and worry about yourself and your kids and take care of yourself - you and your kids are your #1 priority ((((((HUGS)))))))))

[katmar]

Thanks for all the new words

[NSangel]

Thanks for all the words!!!

i noticed your thing said BRRR IT'S COLD!!!

tell me about it! we just got our first snow!!!

yes i said the 4 letter word

was going to bbq for the last time today. so much for that idea. what a waste of 2 beautiful tbones..now i gotta use INDOOR GRILL

jode better check in soon, or seek is going to be hunting her down.

[RTlady]

ok, nobody's bad day will beat this one.
Yesterday DH (dick head) just totally pissed me off when I told him he'd have to take money out of his RRSP's to pay his portion of the bills. I'm not making calling he police so they could try and locate the van. he has
I realize this is extremely personal so if anyone is offended by this please pm me and I will delete it.
I just had to get this out and I know some of you can relate to it.
Jody

Oh Hon I really wish there was something I could say or do -
I shouldn't think that anyone would be offended. Looks like
you've carrying quite a load - you need to do what is best
for your kids including yourself and spouse.
Warmest hugs

[amycrows]

Jode take it easy and enjoy the time with your son because he needs that and so do you. It sounds like alot of things I have been going through lately and I know it is super tough to see someone around you hurt so you care for your son and the man will come to his senses.
Keep in touch with us or we get super worried as NS said. You know we sent people hunting doen RQ so we are family here and want to make sure you are ok.

[firefly]

jodew...sorry to hear you are going through all that!! I don't think you are offending anyone here-we just want to know you are ok!!

[seekthetruth]

seek is wondering just how many jodys can live in on......

[jodew71]

I'm still here and still fuming mad. Once again he's acting like nothing happened. I took the van this morning to bring Alex out and I couldn't care less what he would say about it. It happens to be pizza day at school and Alex has a volleyball game today so he chose to go to school this afternoon. Actually he behaved just like his dad saying "I guess I HAVE to go then". I kept telling him it was his choice. I wasn't going to force him to go but he'd miss out on the pizza and his game. Once he bought his Webkinz stuff he was in a much better mood. I spoke to his principal this morning and Alex is going to meet with the school counsellor on Thursday but he doesn't want to. Says he refuses to. If that's the case I'll send him to a different therapist 'cause he needs to talk to someone.
Anyway, before we left I said to Jim "We DO need to talk but I'm afraid I'm going to blow up at you again". "Probably" he says (with attitude). I walked out and told him that anything I say he deserves because of what he put Alex through last night. I don't understand how he could put himself ahead of his kids. BTW.. Alex is our son and he has 2 other kids from another relationship that we only get to see every other week. What's worse is that THEIR mother chose to marry a verbally abusive man (I'm waiting for the physical part) knowing that the kids didn't want her to marry him. And they are only 6 & 10 (no, he didn't cheat on me - we weren't together at the time). aarrrggghhhhh!!!

So, since I can't talk to him I'm writing another carefully worded letter. I don't think it will change things but we'll see. How can they be so damn stupid?? My mom wants me to give him the boot too but I can't afford my house on my own (will have to find a room mate) and I'd have to put in at least $15,000 of work in order to sell it. I've dealt with worse crap than this but never when it puts my kid in the middle. I'm the angry bear protecting her cubs. lol

You know, I felt so good yesterday after blowing up at him and I feel better now being able to vent. Thanks for all the encouragement!!

[smb127]

Vent all you want, the rest of us do and YES it feels better to know someone out there is listening.