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[KK7]

Oh dear, what a mess. I'm sorry to hear that you resigned. But you still love us right?

well it didn't help you didn't hold up your end of the trade I still have my first born here he was returned to sender!!!

[Insane]

well it didn't help you didn't hold up your end of the trade I still have my first born here he was returned to sender!!!

[ILUVMYPUGTOADIE]

We still love Litesandsirens911

I surely wouldn't want the task of Moderating this tread

PS nice post MercyEhm

[Jezebel]

We still love Litesandsirens911

I surely wouldn't want the task of Moderating this tread

PS nice post MercyEhm

[sweetmomma]

Because you've recently completed a trade and will need more at a later date and updating your wishlist may not be a top priority.

Some people on here (believe it or not) are single parents working 60hrs a wk to make ends meet and are dealing with the difficulties life throws at them. Not everyone has the time to sit on here and chat and update trade lists and wishlists on a daily basis AND have the leisure time to play games.

Yes ladies and gents, there is a life OFF Smart Canucks.

A little tolerance and understanding goes a LONG way.

Think of how that person might feel if she reads your post and has no idea that she pissed you off enough to rant about it on public forum. DId you bother to ASK her why she still listed in spite of the fact she didn't want what you offered? Perhaps it was a polite way of declining a trade that she wasn't comfortable with. Or maybe... MAYBE she's in a situation such as I was a few weeks ago and couldn't afford the one darn stamp to actual MAKE the trade but that's too humiliating to admit so she just declined.

I'm sure if I gave it a second thought I could come up with 100 reasons why people do the things they do. I can do that quickly because I'm used to putting muself in other people's shoes and giving them the benefit of the doubt. I'm well aware I'm just a simple little human and don't have gravitational bodies circling me.

Life happens to people... wouldn't you prefer someone try to be understanding rather than judge you and vent in a public forum?

Just saying... it's something to think about.

I've been readin a lot of "rants" in these threads lately and I recognize the people some are talking about even if no names are mentioned. Personally, and this is just an opinion, I don't feel it's very nice and I doubt the basic investigative work to find out WHY in a kind manner was put forth prior to said rants.

TM2C

I understand all of the topics you have brought forward. I was not PO'd just asking a general question. This is the place where I can voice my opinion and it was my first rant(I realize you weren't speaking of me directly). Anyone who has ever traded with me will tell you I am generous and very positive. Of course I am empathetic towards others and I wasn't taking it personal!

[army_girl29]

I think this forum shouldn't be one of judgement, just a place where one can voice their concerns/questions. Please don't take things personally. I sometimes place my concern, but I never say who nor do I make any indication of whom they are.

Lets keep things happy and peaceful! Thanks y'all!

[Sally888]

Hey everyone! I will be temping and being the trades manager until we can find a suitable replacement.

Please, try to settle any issues on your own first and if you can't pm me and I'll look into it. I do have a few things I am doing this week so it make take a day for me to get back to you, but as most of you know generally I'm pretty speedy. Please ffwd and issues to me.

[Jezebel]

Hey everyone! I will be temping and being the trades manager until we can find a suitable replacement.

Please, try to settle any issues on your own first and if you can't pm me and I'll look into it. I do have a few things I am doing this week so it make take a day for me to get back to you, but as most of you know generally I'm pretty speedy. Please ffwd and issues to me.

[danielzmom]

did anyone trade with star_lover28 recently?
i did a trade with her on feb the 12th and still her envie didnt show up and she didnt log in here since the 16th..

i hope she is ok and not another loss from my side!!!

[Momto2Ks]

Hey everyone! I will be temping and being the trades manager until we can find a suitable replacement.

Please, try to settle any issues on your own first and if you can't pm me and I'll look into it. I do have a few things I am doing this week so it make take a day for me to get back to you, but as most of you know generally I'm pretty speedy. Please ffwd and issues to me.

I sent you a PM. I need help on a situation. I don't want to post in the forum as everyone will attack the issue and I really just want an unbiased opinion and advice. Thanks for helping!

[Rainbow]

did anyone trade with star_lover28 recently?
i did a trade with her on feb the 12th and still her envie didnt show up and she didnt log in here since the 16th..

i hope she is ok and not another loss from my side!!!

I did a GC trade with her on Jan 14 and did not get her envie. I pmed her and she promised to send a replacement on her pay-check day (Feb 15). she didn't log in since 16th.

[hollyhill]

did anyone trade with star_lover28 recently?
i did a trade with her on feb the 12th and still her envie didnt show up and she didnt log in here since the 16th..

i hope she is ok and not another loss from my side!!!

Oh my! She has a seriously ill child. He has a disorder where few survive beyond a few months in age and I believe he is 5, but very high needs and fragile. If she hasn't logged in I would suspect she is at children's hospital with her little man. Gosh I hope they are OK.

I only know about this because we have pmed about raising children with chronic and at times life threatening conditions. I would suspect you will hear from her as soon as she is able. There has been a really bad flu virus going around and if her child got it, it would be life threatening.

[danielzmom]

Oh my! She has a seriously ill child. He has a disorder where few survive beyond a few months in age and I believe he is 5, but very high needs and fragile. If she hasn't logged in I would suspect she is at children's hospital with her little man. Gosh I hope they are OK.

I only know about this because we have pmed about raising children with chronic and at times life threatening conditions. I would suspect you will hear from her as soon as she is able. There has been a really bad flu virus going around and if her child got it, it would be life threatening.

thanks for letting me her situation..i hope she is ok and her son is ok..thats more important than trades

[army_girl29]

I have the same issue...

did anyone trade with star_lover28 recently?
i did a trade with her on feb the 12th and still her envie didnt show up and she didnt log in here since the 16th..

i hope she is ok and not another loss from my side!!!

[army_girl29]

I just hope she does it soon bc I move at the end of the month