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Wed, Jan 2nd, 2013, 03:19 PM #16
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Wed, Jan 2nd, 2013, 03:22 PM #17
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Wed, Jan 2nd, 2013, 03:58 PM #18
I say cash the cheque and donate the money to an organization that helps victims of crime (make sure you get a tax receipt). If they were gifts she gave you then don't send them back. If you have borrowed anything then just return it via mail. Delete her number and be happy the friendship is over!
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Wed, Jan 2nd, 2013, 04:01 PM #19
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Wed, Jan 2nd, 2013, 05:04 PM #20
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wow. I was not going to reply to this thread, but I agree with the other members that I would be HAPPY to not have a friend like that!! I would probably flip out after going through that conversation, so good for you for holding it together.
What REALLY gets me in her 'letter' is she said she didn't have enough time to mail you the items she received from you... so wait.... you have time to write me a letter and a cheque... but no time to mail those items??
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Wed, Jan 2nd, 2013, 05:23 PM #21
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run it thru the cross-shredder and then mail the bits back. Then be glad you are rid of a "friend" like that.
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Wed, Jan 2nd, 2013, 05:40 PM #22
You're better off without her, if that's the kind of person she is. Her kids will be in jail some day. I'd return the cheque, telling her that your friendship was worth more than that to you. Some suggestions for the money: Sent it to the poor b*stard who's car you dented, use it to send your kids to etiquette classes or maybe save it so you can some day bail your kids out of jail.
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Wed, Jan 2nd, 2013, 06:25 PM #23
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She's clearly someone who doesn't like to be told how inappropriate she's being, but maybe she was embarrassed to be called on it, was surprised that someone had a different opinion of the behaviour, and won't be doing it again? I can only hope.
It's also pretty clear that she's a jealous person who likes to upset people who have nice belongings. I assume you're fairly young (30 or so?), so if she was a friend of yours growing up, she must have had her children very young. That could mean that she might not be as well-off financially as you are right now? I can't imagine that someone with a newer, nicer vehicle herself would be allowing her children to slam her car's doors into other vehicles that she has sought out to victimize, as paint could chip off of her doors as well? Maybe she harbours some resentment toward you on account of lifestyle and finances, and is looking for an opportunity to "ding" you and force you to run around finding stuff and apologizing in order to make peace. Who remembers what they bought their friend when they were ten, and why would she want any of the stuff now? I'm guessing that she doesn't have much power in her life.
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Wed, Jan 2nd, 2013, 06:52 PM #24
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Wed, Jan 2nd, 2013, 07:05 PM #25
Who asks for gifts back from 20 years ago? Consider this a blessing. Keep your stuff! Cash the cheque and put it towards your porsche fund and say good riddance to that nut job.
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Wed, Jan 2nd, 2013, 07:06 PM #26
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Wed, Jan 2nd, 2013, 07:36 PM #27
I decided to take some time this afternoon and call some other friends and talk about this situation. Since this is the first time that my friend has ever exhibited this type of behaviour I decided to find out what else is going on. My group of friends was just as shocked as I was. I also talked to her parents that were also shocked. I'm not really ready to just give up on a friend that I've had for over 20 years because of this one situation. I also don't want to support this type of behaviour, and am not ready to support teaching children bad behaviour.
Her parents are intending to visit this evening to see what has been happening. If there is some sort of holiday stress, a bad fight in her marriage, or some sort of medical issue. I'm hoping there's something more going on in her life to support needing help rather than just assuming that she has suddenly become an awful person. The whole thing seems really strange to me and I want to give a good friend help.
To be honest, my first inclination was to just put all of it in the garbage, but upon further thought I've decided to give my friend the benefit of the doubt. Hopefully after her parents visit her there'll be more of an explanation for the surprising behaviour.
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Wed, Jan 2nd, 2013, 07:40 PM #28
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Wed, Jan 2nd, 2013, 08:36 PM #29
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Wed, Jan 2nd, 2013, 08:55 PM #30
Edited as you answered above. Good for you for being an understanding friend.
Last edited by lghend; Wed, Jan 2nd, 2013 at 08:57 PM.
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